"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She Has No "Female Game"...

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I go out with this broad the other night. I pull the typical first date stuff like heavy kino & eye contact. I light it up with neg hits, as usual. The convo was flowing like a smooth flowing tributary. The problem is that this chick has no "game" whatsoever. I could do whatever I want with this girl. Not really much of a challenge.... she's all uptight and nervous, not really given off a heavy sexual vibe like I was looking for. It's obvious she's really into me(because she called me after I dropped her off) but she needs to come to this site so she can read up on recipricating kino and being more comfortable sexually. It was kinda weird. It was like she's never gone out with someone with smooth moves like the fresh prince of bel-air. Kinda turned-off by the whole situation.. She has so much potential though..

If worse comes to worse.. i'll just have to make-love to her then send her on her way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So pimp its scary

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So.... why didn't you fvk her again??

Girls don't need game... I don't know where you guys are all of a sudden asking why some girls have no game... a woman's game is peacocking, that is all. If a girl's got the personality of week old grapefruit... well, like you said, she might be good for a go or 2.
 

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I know what you're talking about... I have the same problem.
Went out with a chick who had absolutely no game, if i hadn't done anything she would have just went of with a hug.

Instead i seduced her until she gave in.... but it was so much work. It should come more naturally.
It's like she has no sex drive at all until i'm on top of her.

bahh... virgins, NEXT
 

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2_intense2 said:
your right, we have NATURAL talent..:p
Yea i got that too, unfortunately not all girls are blessed with it, as aren't all guys.

in response to sopimp:
because i'm sure he's had blow up dolls that were more fun. :crackup:

It's good to see things going the other way for a change, girls are gonna have to step up their game now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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um...why is the writting so HUGE, are you trying to compensate for something??

Anyways...

Not really much of a challenge
When the girls to easy you want a challenge?
when the girl is challenging you want someone a little more easier??

bahh... virgins, NEXT
when the girls a virgin, you want her to have a more experience
when the girls experience, you guys have a problem with that...

and guys say females are difficult...right...:rolleyes:
 

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2_intense2 said:
um...why is the writting so HUGE, are you trying to compensate for something??

Anyways...


When the girls to easy you want a challenge?
when the girl is challenging you want someone a little more easier??


when the girls a virgin, you want her to have a more experience
when the girls experience, you guys have a problem with that...

and guys say females are difficult...right...:rolleyes:
I don't have a problem with experience... other guys do. The ones that want a relationship.

She's not easy, just more sexual. What he's talking about is unemotional. Totally unresponsive to anything you do. It's like necrophilia.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aiite, sounds good. You know it is a friday though... you should try it out on real girls.
 
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