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Don Juan
hello guys,
i need your advice on this one, i thought about it all day but couldn't find a suitable solution. the problem is :
i began to work as a trainee in a big company one month ago. the team is good, job is interesting, doing the work of an engineer, pay check is ok, and i get to learn a lot of things every day.
there is this chick working with my team. SHE (let's call her SHE, capital letters meaning big trouble) is from another departement, but SHE handles a couple of projects, knows everyone, and i guess SHE has some influence here, going all political and all. AND SHE is a cute face, blonde type, nice body, great asz, and with great clothes. first time i met HER, i played cool, lots of humor, chatting, you know the stuff. i'm the kinda of guy that makes people at ease. ok, so i saw SHE is interested. it's a gut feeling. well there is a small maybe SHE is just an attention wh0re but i don't think i 'm wrong this time
i see everyone telling me i should go for it....
BUT :
- SHE is my "indirect superior", has worked here for years, knows people and can influence them,
- my boss is actually a sissy, discovered last week that he sleeps with a teddy bear (lol .... that i didn't belelieve it but was confirmed by one of his coworker when they went to a conference in california ), complains all the time about everything, chooses what he eats like a girlie, tries too much not to hurt other's feeling, phones to his ergirlfirend everyday and
buys her perfumes and expensive stuff (true........). actually, SHE is like a big sister to him and will do anything to please HER.
- SHE is 30, i am 24, that's why i didn't go for the number the first time. I admit i never dated girls older than me, feels uncomfortable to me. that's why i didn't tried to ask her out, and i feel she is getting impatient. like when we say hello (touching the cheeks, it's french customs, BTW) she's longing for more or by the way she smiles
i feel that if don't play my cards right, this workplace is going to turn into a nightmare and i 'll be a puppet in her hand. basically, she has all the powers and can make this very difficult.
that's it
right now, i feel i don't have enough experience dealing with girls who are my boss
waiting for your feedback, guys.......................................
i am just remembering actually, the boss suggested that we trainees work with her departement and found out yesterday that SHE was the one who ordered the whole thing. found out also she is dating (not seriously tough) somebody.
i need your advice on this one, i thought about it all day but couldn't find a suitable solution. the problem is :
i began to work as a trainee in a big company one month ago. the team is good, job is interesting, doing the work of an engineer, pay check is ok, and i get to learn a lot of things every day.
there is this chick working with my team. SHE (let's call her SHE, capital letters meaning big trouble) is from another departement, but SHE handles a couple of projects, knows everyone, and i guess SHE has some influence here, going all political and all. AND SHE is a cute face, blonde type, nice body, great asz, and with great clothes. first time i met HER, i played cool, lots of humor, chatting, you know the stuff. i'm the kinda of guy that makes people at ease. ok, so i saw SHE is interested. it's a gut feeling. well there is a small maybe SHE is just an attention wh0re but i don't think i 'm wrong this time
i see everyone telling me i should go for it....
BUT :
- SHE is my "indirect superior", has worked here for years, knows people and can influence them,
- my boss is actually a sissy, discovered last week that he sleeps with a teddy bear (lol .... that i didn't belelieve it but was confirmed by one of his coworker when they went to a conference in california ), complains all the time about everything, chooses what he eats like a girlie, tries too much not to hurt other's feeling, phones to his ergirlfirend everyday and
buys her perfumes and expensive stuff (true........). actually, SHE is like a big sister to him and will do anything to please HER.
- SHE is 30, i am 24, that's why i didn't go for the number the first time. I admit i never dated girls older than me, feels uncomfortable to me. that's why i didn't tried to ask her out, and i feel she is getting impatient. like when we say hello (touching the cheeks, it's french customs, BTW) she's longing for more or by the way she smiles
i feel that if don't play my cards right, this workplace is going to turn into a nightmare and i 'll be a puppet in her hand. basically, she has all the powers and can make this very difficult.
that's it
right now, i feel i don't have enough experience dealing with girls who are my boss
waiting for your feedback, guys.......................................
i am just remembering actually, the boss suggested that we trainees work with her departement and found out yesterday that SHE was the one who ordered the whole thing. found out also she is dating (not seriously tough) somebody.