"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she has a boyfriend

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWC59D317cQ

sometimes i hear a girl whom i just met or some girl i know keep ranting off about her bf, i feel like the guy in this video. its like the "ah **** it and **** off, stop wasting my time and taking advantage of me"

man i guess im such not a gentlemen for thinking like this but i cant help it! I should try to rethink this entire "stay away if she has a bf" concept.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desensitize yourself from her bf-talk, or just don't meet her again.

Or, pull her into a conversational topic where it provides no room for her to link back to her bf.

It's that simple bro :)
 
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Video is old news, but good repost for newbies.
 
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