"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kelv

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWC59D317cQ

sometimes i hear a girl whom i just met or some girl i know keep ranting off about her bf, i feel like the guy in this video. its like the "ah **** it and **** off, stop wasting my time and taking advantage of me"

man i guess im such not a gentlemen for thinking like this but i cant help it! I should try to rethink this entire "stay away if she has a bf" concept.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Allurre

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Desensitize yourself from her bf-talk, or just don't meet her again.

Or, pull her into a conversational topic where it provides no room for her to link back to her bf.

It's that simple bro :)
 

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Video is old news, but good repost for newbies.
 
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