"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she has a boyfriend

kelv

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWC59D317cQ

sometimes i hear a girl whom i just met or some girl i know keep ranting off about her bf, i feel like the guy in this video. its like the "ah **** it and **** off, stop wasting my time and taking advantage of me"

man i guess im such not a gentlemen for thinking like this but i cant help it! I should try to rethink this entire "stay away if she has a bf" concept.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Allurre

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Desensitize yourself from her bf-talk, or just don't meet her again.

Or, pull her into a conversational topic where it provides no room for her to link back to her bf.

It's that simple bro :)
 

horaholic

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Video is old news, but good repost for newbies.
 
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