She had the condom on her bed!!!

[LittleBigOne]

I feel myself SO F#CKED UP at the moment!!!!

This weekend i was with my foreign friend away for a citytrip. It was the first time together alone and being both single.
We had a great time together, were very active in doing things. Problem was that we speak both a different language so sometimes the conversations went with difficulties.
I brought up the subject of relationships, sexuality etc. She told me she saw our contact as a platonic one as it was planotic ever since (except the first time we met long time ago we were making out). It made me think she was not interested in me so (and that was wrong!) in the final nothing happened (that was last night).
One hour ago she was packing her things and on the moment i got in her room she was almost finished with packing and i saw a condom on her bed. In a reaction she slipped it below something and i think that she didint knew i saw it.
Now i am confused. She didn't really showed interested but i do know she is not an emotional showing person and is rather shy. And my problem is that now i think she was interested and that i was too shy on bringing things further (as she rather didnt respond) and that i think too bad about myself. She left me confused and i am afraid she sees us as latonic for real now....

Can't handle this! What you people think?

 

[DonGorgon]

So was that condom used or unused , was it for you/used by you or another man...?

 

[MacAvoy]

She plans on using it with someone else. However stop being a pvssy and asking if a women likes you and assume she does until she stops your advances. Its not romantic to talk about her liking you, its romantic for you to sweep her off her feet.

 

[Tomatoes]

That was her carry condom.....

Come on man..... Everyone has one. I have one in my wallet and i expect most other guys would. To assume that girls dont!?! The amount of girls i have taken home and THEY have slapped out the condom.

Thats her condom for when she find the guy who melts her heart or makes her pu$$y wet.


Dont beat yourself up about it mate. Just try and get past it.

Plus your doing a standard mistake and over anaylsing!

Sarge On!

 

[tick37]

It was a non-verbal cue for you to pull down you pants, pull out your pcker, and have her slip it on. Then she'd mount up.

 

[SilverSonnet]

Dude, stop worrying, be a man, suck it up. One girl, find some other pvssy to fvck.
If you focus on one girl, your gonna make her into a one-itis. So, spin your plates mate

Good luck to you.
Ben

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You should have offered to put it on.

 

[SharinganUser]

I didn't know there were so many ways to spell plutonic. She spent the weekend alone with you and brought a condom with her. I'd say you ****ed this one up. I am assuming you have a fleshy growth inbetween your legs, SO why were you talking about relationships???

I am in a foreign country now, and I have to say that one of the reasons hooking up is easy is BECAUSE you can't talk to the chick. When there is a language barrier, you have to put all your eggs in the body language basket.

****, if I had known that before I came here, I'd become a ****ing mute back home.

 

[DonGorgon]

You should have offered to put it on.

Yup...

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Yup...

I'd say just ignoring it like he didn't see the condom at all was a bad move. That was a great chance to pull off some C+F and make a move.

I would have done the same thing a few years ago. I would have been too shy to say anything.