"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She had the condom on her bed!!!

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I feel myself SO F#CKED UP at the moment!!!!

This weekend i was with my foreign friend away for a citytrip. It was the first time together alone and being both single.
We had a great time together, were very active in doing things. Problem was that we speak both a different language so sometimes the conversations went with difficulties.
I brought up the subject of relationships, sexuality etc. She told me she saw our contact as a platonic one as it was planotic ever since (except the first time we met long time ago we were making out). It made me think she was not interested in me so (and that was wrong!) in the final nothing happened (that was last night).
One hour ago she was packing her things and on the moment i got in her room she was almost finished with packing and i saw a condom on her bed. In a reaction she slipped it below something and i think that she didint knew i saw it.
Now i am confused. She didn't really showed interested but i do know she is not an emotional showing person and is rather shy. And my problem is that now i think she was interested and that i was too shy on bringing things further (as she rather didnt respond) and that i think too bad about myself. She left me confused and i am afraid she sees us as latonic for real now....

Can't handle this! What you people think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She plans on using it with someone else. However stop being a pvssy and asking if a women likes you and assume she does until she stops your advances. Its not romantic to talk about her liking you, its romantic for you to sweep her off her feet.
 
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That was her carry condom.....

Come on man..... Everyone has one. I have one in my wallet and i expect most other guys would. To assume that girls dont!?! The amount of girls i have taken home and THEY have slapped out the condom.

Thats her condom for when she find the guy who melts her heart or makes her pu$$y wet.


Dont beat yourself up about it mate. Just try and get past it.

Plus your doing a standard mistake and over anaylsing!

Sarge On! :up:
 
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It was a non-verbal cue for you to pull down you pants, pull out your pcker, and have her slip it on. Then she'd mount up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I didn't know there were so many ways to spell plutonic. She spent the weekend alone with you and brought a condom with her. I'd say you ****ed this one up. I am assuming you have a fleshy growth inbetween your legs, SO why were you talking about relationships???

I am in a foreign country now, and I have to say that one of the reasons hooking up is easy is BECAUSE you can't talk to the chick. When there is a language barrier, you have to put all your eggs in the body language basket.

****, if I had known that before I came here, I'd become a ****ing mute back home.
 
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DonGorgon said:
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I'd say just ignoring it like he didn't see the condom at all was a bad move. That was a great chance to pull off some C+F and make a move.

I would have done the same thing a few years ago. I would have been too shy to say anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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