"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She had the condom on her bed!!!

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I feel myself SO F#CKED UP at the moment!!!!

This weekend i was with my foreign friend away for a citytrip. It was the first time together alone and being both single.
We had a great time together, were very active in doing things. Problem was that we speak both a different language so sometimes the conversations went with difficulties.
I brought up the subject of relationships, sexuality etc. She told me she saw our contact as a platonic one as it was planotic ever since (except the first time we met long time ago we were making out). It made me think she was not interested in me so (and that was wrong!) in the final nothing happened (that was last night).
One hour ago she was packing her things and on the moment i got in her room she was almost finished with packing and i saw a condom on her bed. In a reaction she slipped it below something and i think that she didint knew i saw it.
Now i am confused. She didn't really showed interested but i do know she is not an emotional showing person and is rather shy. And my problem is that now i think she was interested and that i was too shy on bringing things further (as she rather didnt respond) and that i think too bad about myself. She left me confused and i am afraid she sees us as latonic for real now....

Can't handle this! What you people think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She plans on using it with someone else. However stop being a pvssy and asking if a women likes you and assume she does until she stops your advances. Its not romantic to talk about her liking you, its romantic for you to sweep her off her feet.
 
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That was her carry condom.....

Come on man..... Everyone has one. I have one in my wallet and i expect most other guys would. To assume that girls dont!?! The amount of girls i have taken home and THEY have slapped out the condom.

Thats her condom for when she find the guy who melts her heart or makes her pu$$y wet.


Dont beat yourself up about it mate. Just try and get past it.

Plus your doing a standard mistake and over anaylsing!

Sarge On! :up:
 
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It was a non-verbal cue for you to pull down you pants, pull out your pcker, and have her slip it on. Then she'd mount up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I didn't know there were so many ways to spell plutonic. She spent the weekend alone with you and brought a condom with her. I'd say you ****ed this one up. I am assuming you have a fleshy growth inbetween your legs, SO why were you talking about relationships???

I am in a foreign country now, and I have to say that one of the reasons hooking up is easy is BECAUSE you can't talk to the chick. When there is a language barrier, you have to put all your eggs in the body language basket.

****, if I had known that before I came here, I'd become a ****ing mute back home.
 
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DonGorgon said:
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I'd say just ignoring it like he didn't see the condom at all was a bad move. That was a great chance to pull off some C+F and make a move.

I would have done the same thing a few years ago. I would have been too shy to say anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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