“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She got really drunk

volkme68

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I was out the other night at a club with a group of friends. A girl I have been gaming was in the group. Everyone was having a great time. Her and I were dancing and making out. I am sure things would have progressed further over the course of the night, but she proceeded to get completely tanked. It was a free drinks til 1am thing and everyone was hammered. We drove back, I peaced out, and a friend took care of her.

Next day, she calls to apologize to me about getting wasted. I truly don't care about it, everyone has those nights, and told her it was no big deal.

How do you guys handle it when a girl your hanging with gets really tanked?
 

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For me its usually the type of drunk she is.

If shes one of those stupid drunks, I leave her at her place and call the next day (if I'm not too busy) or the one after, unless she beats me to it.

If shes a cool drunk, I get almost tanked and begin the bedding protocol.
 

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Yeah I know what you mean. She was to the rediculous, needs to be carried out the club drunk that ended in a 45min puke session. I really didn't mind, but I didn't want to come off as AFC care provider either. Fortunately, a friend of hers was there to make it easyon me. What do you do if there is no friend, but the person really should have some one to take care of them?
 

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ugh, most drunk girls i've met are utterly insane.

it's like they want to experience that song "Just Dance" and they somehow end up with their shirt turned inside out.

If it's someone i like and am friends with, i'll drag them aside, tell them to drink this bottle of water and chill for a few minutes. If she's not better before those minutes are up, i'm calling a cab and sending her home. If she won't listen to me then i won't be responsible and i'll walk away. (Harsh but i'm firm on this.)

honestly, you should know your limits and stay within them, or if you plan on getting tanked, have someone who knows they might have to help if needed.

i've had alot of experiences with overdrinking and drug use, it completely ruins the night for you since you now have to babysit someone.
 

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I havent had that situation so far, so I dunno what I would do. Best advice I could give is not let them get that sloppy drunk.

Its a tough situation, because 1, you dont wanna be all AFCish and as you said, not become a AFC careprovider but at the same time, you dont wanna be a completely heartless *******. My advice on it would be to not let her get uber-drunk.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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