"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She got bf.

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I met this girl last Jan 9 this year. When we were introduced, i didnt pay much attention to her. Later that afternoon we went to my boss's house since its the feast of their Patron Saint. It was then and there that i "recognized" her. To cut the story short, i like her. Ive been accompanying her home. Taking her out to the mall. chat at coffee shop, call, text. But the problem is, she's on a relationship and they got some problem. her bf is on the province and shes here in the metro. i am thinking twice on persuing her. I know she knows i like her. If ever, i dont want to be the cause of their break up. I dont want to be called a stealer or whatsoever. Or either to be a third party.


I dont know what to do. Can you help me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frigging catholics. keep a lid on it or the hombre will stab you with his stiletto
 
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Well you are being a good man not stealing his girl from him, but just sit back and wait, good chance she will make the move or break up with him.
 
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MooseGod said:
If she ain't got a ring it don't mean a thing.
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Then you better get moving fast. Each day you keep doing the things for her that you mentioned above, you keep cementing yourself in that dreaded friends category.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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