"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She got bf.

JulioJose

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I met this girl last Jan 9 this year. When we were introduced, i didnt pay much attention to her. Later that afternoon we went to my boss's house since its the feast of their Patron Saint. It was then and there that i "recognized" her. To cut the story short, i like her. Ive been accompanying her home. Taking her out to the mall. chat at coffee shop, call, text. But the problem is, she's on a relationship and they got some problem. her bf is on the province and shes here in the metro. i am thinking twice on persuing her. I know she knows i like her. If ever, i dont want to be the cause of their break up. I dont want to be called a stealer or whatsoever. Or either to be a third party.


I dont know what to do. Can you help me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mintxx

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frigging catholics. keep a lid on it or the hombre will stab you with his stiletto
 

Volpez

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Well you are being a good man not stealing his girl from him, but just sit back and wait, good chance she will make the move or break up with him.
 

Gangster Of Love

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MooseGod said:
If she ain't got a ring it don't mean a thing.
Then you better get moving fast. Each day you keep doing the things for her that you mentioned above, you keep cementing yourself in that dreaded friends category.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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