"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She Get's in Your Car, How Do YOU Greet?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ollie

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I usually get out and open the door for them and ask them if they'd like me to buckle their seatbelt...haha usually get's some interesting conversation started.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I say welcome to the office so, buckle your seat belt cause you riding with the devil.
 

mtlwlu

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If its a first date thats a big no no for me, gotta meet them at their door, just seems to afc to wait and let them come to your car (youre afraid of someone else answer the door etc.)
 
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