"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she gave me the "I have a boyfriend" line

00Kevin

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I was out the other day for lunch with a girl from work who I hardly ever talk to. During lunch she told me that she had a boyfriend 3 or 4 times. each time she told me this I just didn't care and I never gave her any reaction to it. I really didn't care because I wasn't that interested in her. I also never made a move on her at all. So I couldn't figure out why she would tell me that. Did she really think that I was interested in her? Maybe she was just full of herself.

well.. After a few days I realized that maybe she is trying to tell me this so that she doesn't feel bad if anything happens. hmm...

Anyone have a similar experience. Could the "I have a boyfriend" line mean something totally different in this context?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dukester

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Definitely check that link out that Cpt. Jack Sparrow gave ya. I just read it- priceless info there. Some of those things would be so funny to say, and see a reaction from.
 

xblitz44x

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"Could the "I have a boyfriend" line mean something totally different in this context?"

What does it matter if:

"I really didn't care because I wasn't that interested in her."

Cracks me up. Anyway, the answer is no. Especially if she said it 3-4 times. If she was doing it because she just wanted you to be aware of it for when she sleeps with you, she would have just mentioned it once and hoped you didn't hear it.
 
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