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You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she gave me her number but I can't get her

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hey, everyone. I met this girl a while back. We were going to go to a special event I planned and she said "I'm really busy." She did give me her number but she gave the excuse that its very hard to get days off. I'm just was wondering what you all thought. I'm taking it as a rejection that she doesn't want to go out. should I text her number and see if she responds and then if she doesn't just forget it and let it go. I left a voice mail message.

Thanks, this would help
 

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If you left a voicemail, unless it went straight to voicemail she would see your missed call + a voicemail. So no need to text. She knows you tried to get ahold of her already.

Also I hope it wasn't a stupid / long voicemail. Should be something short like , hey it's "____" give me a call back...etc.

Calling is the way to go too IMO. You were spot on with her offering excuses right away as low IL. If you tried to initiate contact, whether it be calling or text and she doesn't get back just let it go.
 
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Seems like a lost cause if the girl is already talking about being "busy" before you've even taken her out

Sure, you can try her one more time and see what the deal is. But I wouldn't count on her. When a girl wants to date you, she'll move some stuff on her busy schedule. Or at least offer a day / week that IS good for her schedule
 
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