"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she gave me her number but I can't get her

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hey, everyone. I met this girl a while back. We were going to go to a special event I planned and she said "I'm really busy." She did give me her number but she gave the excuse that its very hard to get days off. I'm just was wondering what you all thought. I'm taking it as a rejection that she doesn't want to go out. should I text her number and see if she responds and then if she doesn't just forget it and let it go. I left a voice mail message.

Thanks, this would help
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you left a voicemail, unless it went straight to voicemail she would see your missed call + a voicemail. So no need to text. She knows you tried to get ahold of her already.

Also I hope it wasn't a stupid / long voicemail. Should be something short like , hey it's "____" give me a call back...etc.

Calling is the way to go too IMO. You were spot on with her offering excuses right away as low IL. If you tried to initiate contact, whether it be calling or text and she doesn't get back just let it go.
 
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Seems like a lost cause if the girl is already talking about being "busy" before you've even taken her out

Sure, you can try her one more time and see what the deal is. But I wouldn't count on her. When a girl wants to date you, she'll move some stuff on her busy schedule. Or at least offer a day / week that IS good for her schedule
 
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