"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She friend zoned me BUT

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This one girl (I tried hooking up with her but only got to make out with her) put me in the friend zone but at the same time she keeps on trying to get attention to me and lead me on as if I have a crush on her (which I don't). I tried hooking up with her again but failed. So since she started just using me for attention I started to ignore her, because it was making me mad that she would just use me to give her attention. So after ignoring her for a couple of months I randomly say something to her when I'm drunk at a party and she says (in a mean voice) "oh, so you're talking to me now?"

Should I continue ignoring her or try another routine? Keep in mind she doesn't have any attractive female friends to go for.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Demystify said:
This one girl (I tried hooking up with her but only got to make out with her) put me in the friend zone but at the same time she keeps on trying to get attention to me and lead me on as if I have a crush on her (which I don't). I tried hooking up with her again but failed. So since she started just using me for attention I started to ignore her, because it was making me mad that she would just use me to give her attention. So after ignoring her for a couple of months I randomly say something to her when I'm drunk at a party and she says (in a mean voice) "oh, so you're talking to me now?"

Should I continue ignoring her or try another routine? Keep in mind she doesn't have any attractive female friends to go for.
find another ***** man..them hookers who play games aren't worth a ****..stick em ...let them lick em..then kick em.......to the curb.
 

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This one girl who hinted towards an LJBF zone, started msning me. A couple times.

Day 1

HB7: Hey

*ignored*

Day 2

HB7: Hey

*ignored again*

Day 3:

HB7: Hey

Me: Hey

HB7:You're not talking to me?

Me: I'm trying to fix my friend's phone. *That is true*

HB7: ok later then

Me: ttyl.

Now where does this ***** get off asking that question? She's not my girlfriend, seriously... It was basically like a mini freeze out because she never returned my two calls and I felt chumped, stopped calling and texting, gave short replies on msn and **** like that.

I didn't like the way she msned me instead of calling, either, really turned me off for good. Oh well, on to the next girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dante420 said:
There's some ways out of the friend zone but you need to decide if it's worth the effort
And how do I do that? It's kind of hard to do that when every single time I talk to her she seems to lead me on for more attention while hooking up with some bad boy in front of my face.
 

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"And how do I do that? It's kind of hard to do that when every single time I talk to her she seems to lead me on for more attention while hooking up with some bad boy in front of my face."


You don't... I suggest you save yourself the pain... and stop talking to her immediately, because this isn't a movie, and you aren't going to get the outcome you desire.
 

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The AW piece of the puzzle should be falling into place for you now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demystify said:
And how do I do that? It's kind of hard to do that when every single time I talk to her she seems to lead me on for more attention while hooking up with some bad boy in front of my face.
Do the same to her. Pay her little attention and make her jealous by hooking up and/or flirting with another girl in her face.

She'll probably get pissed off and throw back the same jealousy games at you. Don't worry though, just act indifferent and ignore them and she'll be on your d1ck in no time. :up:
 

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I agree, i've been in a similiar situation to this before. **** the *****, ignore her ass, hook up with girls in front of her, forget all about her, and she'll probably get jealous and want you. Women are strange like that
 

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Demystify said:
This one girl (I tried hooking up with her but only got to make out with her) put me in the friend zone but at the same time she keeps on trying to get attention to me and lead me on as if I have a crush on her (which I don't). I tried hooking up with her again but failed. So since she started just using me for attention I started to ignore her, because it was making me mad that she would just use me to give her attention. So after ignoring her for a couple of months I randomly say something to her when I'm drunk at a party and she says (in a mean voice) "oh, so you're talking to me now?"

Should I continue ignoring her or try another routine? Keep in mind she doesn't have any attractive female friends to go for.
Try a routine?!? Why would you constantly go after a woman who shows little or no interest in you?? Why purposely try make her jealous in a feeble attempt to 'create interest'? Why are you even interest in her anyway? If you know shes using you for anything why not next her immediately? Seriously who is the prize here? You or Her? Who is going after whom will answer this one..but anyway if you want to just be friends with her, go right ahead, nothing wrong with that (Regardless of what some of these guys might say). You can "next" her as a potential lover, but you do not have to 'next' her form being a friend.
 

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She is using you for attention THAT IS ALL
the only time you should talk to her again
is if she if she wants to fk you like Elizabeth Berkley in Showgirls



the Friend Zone is the vast wasteland filled with AFC's waiting for their shot
 
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