"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She friend zoned me BUT

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This one girl (I tried hooking up with her but only got to make out with her) put me in the friend zone but at the same time she keeps on trying to get attention to me and lead me on as if I have a crush on her (which I don't). I tried hooking up with her again but failed. So since she started just using me for attention I started to ignore her, because it was making me mad that she would just use me to give her attention. So after ignoring her for a couple of months I randomly say something to her when I'm drunk at a party and she says (in a mean voice) "oh, so you're talking to me now?"

Should I continue ignoring her or try another routine? Keep in mind she doesn't have any attractive female friends to go for.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Demystify said:
This one girl (I tried hooking up with her but only got to make out with her) put me in the friend zone but at the same time she keeps on trying to get attention to me and lead me on as if I have a crush on her (which I don't). I tried hooking up with her again but failed. So since she started just using me for attention I started to ignore her, because it was making me mad that she would just use me to give her attention. So after ignoring her for a couple of months I randomly say something to her when I'm drunk at a party and she says (in a mean voice) "oh, so you're talking to me now?"

Should I continue ignoring her or try another routine? Keep in mind she doesn't have any attractive female friends to go for.
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find another ***** man..them hookers who play games aren't worth a ****..stick em ...let them lick em..then kick em.......to the curb.
 
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This one girl who hinted towards an LJBF zone, started msning me. A couple times.

Day 1

HB7: Hey

*ignored*

Day 2

HB7: Hey

*ignored again*

Day 3:

HB7: Hey

Me: Hey

HB7:You're not talking to me?

Me: I'm trying to fix my friend's phone. *That is true*

HB7: ok later then

Me: ttyl.

Now where does this ***** get off asking that question? She's not my girlfriend, seriously... It was basically like a mini freeze out because she never returned my two calls and I felt chumped, stopped calling and texting, gave short replies on msn and **** like that.

I didn't like the way she msned me instead of calling, either, really turned me off for good. Oh well, on to the next girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dante420 said:
There's some ways out of the friend zone but you need to decide if it's worth the effort
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And how do I do that? It's kind of hard to do that when every single time I talk to her she seems to lead me on for more attention while hooking up with some bad boy in front of my face.
 
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"And how do I do that? It's kind of hard to do that when every single time I talk to her she seems to lead me on for more attention while hooking up with some bad boy in front of my face."


You don't... I suggest you save yourself the pain... and stop talking to her immediately, because this isn't a movie, and you aren't going to get the outcome you desire.
 
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The AW piece of the puzzle should be falling into place for you now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Demystify said:
And how do I do that? It's kind of hard to do that when every single time I talk to her she seems to lead me on for more attention while hooking up with some bad boy in front of my face.
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Do the same to her. Pay her little attention and make her jealous by hooking up and/or flirting with another girl in her face.

She'll probably get pissed off and throw back the same jealousy games at you. Don't worry though, just act indifferent and ignore them and she'll be on your d1ck in no time. :up:
 
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I agree, i've been in a similiar situation to this before. **** the *****, ignore her ass, hook up with girls in front of her, forget all about her, and she'll probably get jealous and want you. Women are strange like that
 
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Demystify said:
This one girl (I tried hooking up with her but only got to make out with her) put me in the friend zone but at the same time she keeps on trying to get attention to me and lead me on as if I have a crush on her (which I don't). I tried hooking up with her again but failed. So since she started just using me for attention I started to ignore her, because it was making me mad that she would just use me to give her attention. So after ignoring her for a couple of months I randomly say something to her when I'm drunk at a party and she says (in a mean voice) "oh, so you're talking to me now?"

Should I continue ignoring her or try another routine? Keep in mind she doesn't have any attractive female friends to go for.
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Try a routine?!? Why would you constantly go after a woman who shows little or no interest in you?? Why purposely try make her jealous in a feeble attempt to 'create interest'? Why are you even interest in her anyway? If you know shes using you for anything why not next her immediately? Seriously who is the prize here? You or Her? Who is going after whom will answer this one..but anyway if you want to just be friends with her, go right ahead, nothing wrong with that (Regardless of what some of these guys might say). You can "next" her as a potential lover, but you do not have to 'next' her form being a friend.
 
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She is using you for attention THAT IS ALL
the only time you should talk to her again
is if she if she wants to fk you like Elizabeth Berkley in Showgirls



the Friend Zone is the vast wasteland filled with AFC's waiting for their shot
 
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