“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She "forgot" her phone? Setting up a real date...

baurman

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So I called this chick I'm trying to hook up with once and left her a message because she didn't answer. I wasn't about to call her again and just waited for her to return my call. Finally, she returned my call the next day apologizing and saying she forgot her phone at work. I asked her if she wanted to do anything this week but she tells me that she is busy because she has a big project due for school that she needs to pull an 'all nighter' and finish. Fine. Sounds believable...or maybe? Anyways, how should I set up an ACTUAL date? Because now she's saying she will call me. But I'll call her on Friday or something and I just want to set something up where we can go out. Not none of this "I'll call you when I want to do something" bullsh!t.

Oh, and one thing I found out. My friend was talking to her and he was saying how he goes clubbing and he knows all the bouncers. Well. She asked him if he could get her in. And he's all trying to hit on her saying "Yeah.. give me your number and we can hang out" and they both exchanged numbers. How do I work around this? I'm pretty pissed about it because he even told me that he doesn't even want a relationship with her, he just wants to **** with her. I told him that I WANT to date her and he's like "WHAT? Oh well, whoever gets her first..."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When she called you back you should have been prepared and asked her out to do somthing on a particular day that you had in mind....not "would you like to do something this week ?" this is a weak pitch. If she sais she is busy or doesn't like your idea (and sais for example come and join me and my friends at the club on Sat night, I'll see you there) and doesn't come back with a counter offer throw her number away and forget about her.

Don't try and be her friend.

Find a girl that has a high interest in you and sais "yes that sounds great, here's my address...I'll see you then"
 

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so saying "you want to join my friends and I at the club on saturday?" would be better? if she denies this then I'll just next her. I feel that if she was interested in me, even if she was 'busy' she would still make time to spend with me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No, I'm saying if she sais this to you she's basically turning you down and towing you along. She has to agree with your idea for the date and she has to show up....never ask a girl out to a club imo.

Learn from this and move on. Don't call her. If she calls you she has to suggest getting together, but just the two of you.
 
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