"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She flakes out of the blue? Is this a test?

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8ball

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Hmm..She went out of town this weekend.

I hear from her Friday. (I don't respond).

I hear from her Saturday. (I text a short msg back ..Drive safe.)

Don't hear from her Sunday...and today she called in sick to work, and I don't hear from her all day. We've been dating for 2 months. Before she left, she was talking about sex and going down on me and all that stuff..it's not like her to just fall of the planet and not contact me at all. This is definitely not normal behavior.

In these 2 months, we've never fought, I've always been low key and smooth. Is she trying to get a reaction? What are some opinions? It's just odd...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Johnnyventana

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I don't know. You don't respond at all to her first Friday text. She tries again Saturday and you are super short and cold. She contacted you twice with lackluster results and you expect her to contact you again? For what? More coldness or no response? Would you contact someone who acted like that?

I'm sure she is pissed. What do you expect? I don't think you're doing the bible right.
 
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Johnnyventana said:
I don't know. You don't respond at all to her first Friday text. She tries again Saturday and you are super short and cold. She contacted you twice with lackluster results and you expect her to contact you again? For what? More coldness or no response? Would you contact someone who acted like that?

I'm sure she is pissed. What do you expect? I don't think you're doing the bible right.
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Exactly!

Why are you playing games with her anyway? If you say you've never fought over 2 months, then there's no reason to be cold with her.
 
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I will not assume you're playing games, but to their credit, Jariel, John have my agreeance.

There is no merit in pressing games into a dynamic that carried none to begin with. If she is your girl, I am unaware of what you believe ignoring her will do for you.
If you were under the belief it would build attraction, you 'd have to explain that to me, because in this particular context, non-contact or disinterest is not warranted.

The worst thing you want is to inspire her will to play games, through your doing so.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question: How do you date a girl for 2 months and still not get sex? I hope u r not paying for her :nono: :nono:
 
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