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She flakes out of the blue? Is this a test?

8ball

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Hmm..She went out of town this weekend.

I hear from her Friday. (I don't respond).

I hear from her Saturday. (I text a short msg back ..Drive safe.)

Don't hear from her Sunday...and today she called in sick to work, and I don't hear from her all day. We've been dating for 2 months. Before she left, she was talking about sex and going down on me and all that stuff..it's not like her to just fall of the planet and not contact me at all. This is definitely not normal behavior.

In these 2 months, we've never fought, I've always been low key and smooth. Is she trying to get a reaction? What are some opinions? It's just odd...
 

Johnnyventana

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I don't know. You don't respond at all to her first Friday text. She tries again Saturday and you are super short and cold. She contacted you twice with lackluster results and you expect her to contact you again? For what? More coldness or no response? Would you contact someone who acted like that?

I'm sure she is pissed. What do you expect? I don't think you're doing the bible right.
 

Jariel

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Johnnyventana said:
I don't know. You don't respond at all to her first Friday text. She tries again Saturday and you are super short and cold. She contacted you twice with lackluster results and you expect her to contact you again? For what? More coldness or no response? Would you contact someone who acted like that?

I'm sure she is pissed. What do you expect? I don't think you're doing the bible right.
Exactly!

Why are you playing games with her anyway? If you say you've never fought over 2 months, then there's no reason to be cold with her.
 

LE6END

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I will not assume you're playing games, but to their credit, Jariel, John have my agreeance.

There is no merit in pressing games into a dynamic that carried none to begin with. If she is your girl, I am unaware of what you believe ignoring her will do for you.
If you were under the belief it would build attraction, you 'd have to explain that to me, because in this particular context, non-contact or disinterest is not warranted.

The worst thing you want is to inspire her will to play games, through your doing so.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

escaleraroyal

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Question: How do you date a girl for 2 months and still not get sex? I hope u r not paying for her :nono: :nono:
 
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