"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She flakes out of the blue? Is this a test?

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8ball

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Hmm..She went out of town this weekend.

I hear from her Friday. (I don't respond).

I hear from her Saturday. (I text a short msg back ..Drive safe.)

Don't hear from her Sunday...and today she called in sick to work, and I don't hear from her all day. We've been dating for 2 months. Before she left, she was talking about sex and going down on me and all that stuff..it's not like her to just fall of the planet and not contact me at all. This is definitely not normal behavior.

In these 2 months, we've never fought, I've always been low key and smooth. Is she trying to get a reaction? What are some opinions? It's just odd...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know. You don't respond at all to her first Friday text. She tries again Saturday and you are super short and cold. She contacted you twice with lackluster results and you expect her to contact you again? For what? More coldness or no response? Would you contact someone who acted like that?

I'm sure she is pissed. What do you expect? I don't think you're doing the bible right.
 
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Johnnyventana said:
I don't know. You don't respond at all to her first Friday text. She tries again Saturday and you are super short and cold. She contacted you twice with lackluster results and you expect her to contact you again? For what? More coldness or no response? Would you contact someone who acted like that?

I'm sure she is pissed. What do you expect? I don't think you're doing the bible right.
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Exactly!

Why are you playing games with her anyway? If you say you've never fought over 2 months, then there's no reason to be cold with her.
 
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I will not assume you're playing games, but to their credit, Jariel, John have my agreeance.

There is no merit in pressing games into a dynamic that carried none to begin with. If she is your girl, I am unaware of what you believe ignoring her will do for you.
If you were under the belief it would build attraction, you 'd have to explain that to me, because in this particular context, non-contact or disinterest is not warranted.

The worst thing you want is to inspire her will to play games, through your doing so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question: How do you date a girl for 2 months and still not get sex? I hope u r not paying for her :nono: :nono:
 
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