“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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donjuanapprentice01

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Man, I dunno, evrytime things seem to go well, it just goes to ****.

So yeah, that chick I had a date with last night flaked on me. She had asked me to call before hand, which I did, only to get the excuse that she was going out with friends because it was the only night her and her friends hd off. "Don't throw away my number, call me later on and we'll set something up" BS. Number thrown away.

Another loss on my part I guess. Wasn't the first time, won't be the last.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warlord

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Originally posted by donjuanapprentice01
Man, I dunno, evrytime things seem to go well, it just goes to ****.

So yeah, that chick I had a date with last night flaked on me. She had asked me to call before hand, which I did, only to get the excuse that she was going out with friends because it was the only night her and her friends hd off. "Don't throw away my number, call me later on and we'll set something up" BS. Number thrown away.

Another loss on my part I guess. Wasn't the first time, won't be the last.
Usually when a girl tells you to "call before" it's actually a delayed "no answer" - I've learned this several times... alright maybe a dozen times before I learned to just delete her number on the spot and sarge on to the next girl. It's all good, don't waste time with a fickler unless you REALLY have a good connection.
 

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Originally posted by donjuanapprentice01
Man, I dunno, evrytime things seem to go well, it just goes to ****.

So yeah, that chick I had a date with last night flaked on me. She had asked me to call before hand, which I did, only to get the excuse that she was going out with friends because it was the only night her and her friends hd off. "Don't throw away my number, call me later on and we'll set something up" BS. Number thrown away.

Another loss on my part I guess. Wasn't the first time, won't be the last.
Tell this flake to fvck off immediately!!!!!

You're such a priority, and she like you so much that she put going out with her friends ahead of you? I know it was a first date, but fvck that.

What I do when this happens is say "I don't take rain checks. have a nice life".......

Don't tolerate this kind of BS.
 

sapphire

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They want you to call to confirm because they have other options and don't want to commit at that moment. So, yes it is like a delayed or neutral answer. The girl either does not have a high enough interest level or is just not sure about you. In either case, never let her or another girl jerk you around. Next time a girl tells you to call to confirm just let her know you don't play that game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes, next time it happends that she asks you to call her ahead of time just end it right there. No worries - move on to someone else.
 

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I wouldn't consider this a flake. She's just playing hard to get, very few women are submissive and needy enough to drop whatever they're doing just to be with someone they met a few days ago. Try again in 3 or 4 days so as to not appear needy, but show that you have persistance... and of course, dont be too persistant as this may drive her away.
 
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