"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she flake? or not

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supposed to go on a date with a plate tonight she said yes last night even brought up plans etc. I texted her 5 hrs ago about tonight. still no answer were going out at 8 it is now 5. should I reply again or wait don't wanna seem to desperate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Drop her a call, sounds flaky though.
 

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does sound flaky. Thing about calling is her speaker on her cell phone is waterlogged so when I did call last week she could barely hear me and I could barely hear her so we hung up and just texted.
this might sound creepy but on her Facebook messanger it says she hasn't been on in 5 hrs. I texted her 3 hrs ago so maybe she took a nap or is busy who knows
 

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That was last week, the water would be gone by now or she would have got the phone fixed by Abdul.

Make the call.
 

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we talked about it yesterday the phone is still having problems she's waiting on a new one to be shipped
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well there’s no way she hasn’t checked her phone in 5 hours. Make arrangements to go out with friends or just get some beers and chill. It’s game over with this one.
 

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I figured that she's average looking. but potential easy lay...or so I thought. should I even text her back?
 

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Something like, “making plans to go to a party, let me know if you’re around”
 

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ok thanks bro. there is a possibly she hasn't checked her phone. but it's slight fvck it I'm goin out with the boys
 

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Keep us updated with this one
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe she thinks you're a creep.
 

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well we've made out and I've taken her on a date months ago but she moved and she just moved back.
 

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update: she answered and said yes let's go out what time hahaha
 

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It was the thought you had other plans. Thank me later.
 

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It was the thought you had other plans. Thank me later.
Yep or bish was waiting on Chad to ask her out. She held out long enough (5 hours) and then Chad never asked, so she went with OP. A woman who is highly interested in me will text me and apologize for not getting back to me early. OP will find out after the date.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yep or bish was waiting on Chad to ask her out. She held out long enough (5 hours) and then Chad never asked, so she went with OP. A woman who is highly interested in me will text me and apologize for not getting back to me early. OP will find out after the date.
High interest girls will be hounding YOU. They will be asking if the date is still on, “are we still on for tonight”. Anything else is low interest imo.
 

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I figured that she's average looking. but potential easy lay...or so I thought. should I even text her back?
It's funny how some posters revert to rationalising flaked by their date as " Anyway she wasn't worth it" " She is just an average girl" "She's just a sl*ut", and as such insulte,,,all in order to save their Ego, but at the same time asking advice and showing interest on how to salvage the situation with this allegedly "Average" girl,,,,,,

OP, not all flaked women are garbage , some are just not that into you,,,
(ps:I'm not justifying flaks, but it is what it is, learn to live with it and don't sweat the small stuff )
 

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no girl I've ever gone on a date with was hounding me what time and where are we meeting it was always me setting it up and texting later in the day confirming.

the date went great. she is making other plans with us to hangout. she even mentioned going to my favorite vacation spot just me and her.... she was on her period so no sex but we got busy in other ways
 

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Nice! She "mentioned" doesn't mean its a def 2nd date. Remember actions not words when it comes to women. Contact her in a few days and set up another date.
 
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