she flake? or not

[Ryan Adams]

supposed to go on a date with a plate tonight she said yes last night even brought up plans etc. I texted her 5 hrs ago about tonight. still no answer were going out at 8 it is now 5. should I reply again or wait don't wanna seem to desperate.

 

[Murk]

Drop her a call, sounds flaky though.

 

[Ryan Adams]

does sound flaky. Thing about calling is her speaker on her cell phone is waterlogged so when I did call last week she could barely hear me and I could barely hear her so we hung up and just texted.
this might sound creepy but on her Facebook messanger it says she hasn't been on in 5 hrs. I texted her 3 hrs ago so maybe she took a nap or is busy who knows

 

[Murk]

That was last week, the water would be gone by now or she would have got the phone fixed by Abdul.

Make the call.

 

[Ryan Adams]

we talked about it yesterday the phone is still having problems she's waiting on a new one to be shipped

 

[Murk]

Well there’s no way she hasn’t checked her phone in 5 hours. Make arrangements to go out with friends or just get some beers and chill. It’s game over with this one.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I figured that she's average looking. but potential easy lay...or so I thought. should I even text her back?

 

[Murk]

Something like, “making plans to go to a party, let me know if you’re around”

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok thanks bro. there is a possibly she hasn't checked her phone. but it's slight fvck it I'm goin out with the boys

 

[Murk]

Keep us updated with this one

 

[wifehunter]

Maybe she thinks you're a creep.

 

[Ryan Adams]

well we've made out and I've taken her on a date months ago but she moved and she just moved back.

 

[Ryan Adams]

update: she answered and said yes let's go out what time hahaha

 

[Murk]

It was the thought you had other plans. Thank me later.

 

[Mazer]

It was the thought you had other plans. Thank me later.

Yep or bish was waiting on Chad to ask her out. She held out long enough (5 hours) and then Chad never asked, so she went with OP. A woman who is highly interested in me will text me and apologize for not getting back to me early. OP will find out after the date.

 

[Murk]

Yep or bish was waiting on Chad to ask her out. She held out long enough (5 hours) and then Chad never asked, so she went with OP. A woman who is highly interested in me will text me and apologize for not getting back to me early. OP will find out after the date.

High interest girls will be hounding YOU. They will be asking if the date is still on, “are we still on for tonight”. Anything else is low interest imo.

 

[The Diver]

I figured that she's average looking. but potential easy lay...or so I thought. should I even text her back?

It's funny how some posters revert to rationalising flaked by their date as " Anyway she wasn't worth it" " She is just an average girl" "She's just a sl*ut", and as such insulte,,,all in order to save their Ego, but at the same time asking advice and showing interest on how to salvage the situation with this allegedly "Average" girl,,,,,,

OP, not all flaked women are garbage , some are just not that into you,,,
(ps:I'm not justifying flaks, but it is what it is, learn to live with it and don't sweat the small stuff )

 

[Ryan Adams]

no girl I've ever gone on a date with was hounding me what time and where are we meeting it was always me setting it up and texting later in the day confirming.

the date went great. she is making other plans with us to hangout. she even mentioned going to my favorite vacation spot just me and her.... she was on her period so no sex but we got busy in other ways

 

[Mazer]

Nice! She "mentioned" doesn't mean its a def 2nd date. Remember actions not words when it comes to women. Contact her in a few days and set up another date.