"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She fell for my wingman

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DJ Axton

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Is this a common problem? Cause it's the first time this has happened to me and it's pretty annoying.

Me and my wingman were talking to this chick and I made it perfectly clear to him she was my target but she just fell for him. I don't know when, I don't know how. It all happened so fast - I'd never seen anything like it lol.

Anyway she pulled me aside yesterday and told me she was interested in him and not in me (not in those exact words, but that's what she basically said). I'll probably just next her now, my logic being that if I keep her as a friend she can open more social doors. Unless anyone has different advice?

I'm definitely not using him as my wingman again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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just so suave

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Your buddy got lucky, so you're never gonna go out sarging with him again? Thats silly, the chick probably just wasn't feeling ur game. Give him another chance.
 
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if u can't get with her u can make her a buddy and u'll get more options
 
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Joe The Homophobe

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If that happened to me I would be happy for my wingman then keep on sarging. Don't make it sound like she is the only girl in the world young grasshopper! hell if if were gaming a girl and she fell for my wingman and just jumped on his arms and started making out right there I would just walk away laughing (or might end up cheering for him) ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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