"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

She fell for my wingman

D

DJ Axton

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2006
Messages
58
Reaction score
0
Is this a common problem? Cause it's the first time this has happened to me and it's pretty annoying.

Me and my wingman were talking to this chick and I made it perfectly clear to him she was my target but she just fell for him. I don't know when, I don't know how. It all happened so fast - I'd never seen anything like it lol.

Anyway she pulled me aside yesterday and told me she was interested in him and not in me (not in those exact words, but that's what she basically said). I'll probably just next her now, my logic being that if I keep her as a friend she can open more social doors. Unless anyone has different advice?

I'm definitely not using him as my wingman again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

J

just so suave

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
228
Reaction score
0
Location
England
Your buddy got lucky, so you're never gonna go out sarging with him again? Thats silly, the chick probably just wasn't feeling ur game. Give him another chance.
 
D

duffman360

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2007
Messages
89
Reaction score
0
if u can't get with her u can make her a buddy and u'll get more options
 
J

Joe The Homophobe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2004
Messages
1,212
Reaction score
8
Location
USA
If that happened to me I would be happy for my wingman then keep on sarging. Don't make it sound like she is the only girl in the world young grasshopper! hell if if were gaming a girl and she fell for my wingman and just jumped on his arms and started making out right there I would just walk away laughing (or might end up cheering for him) ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top