"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She fell for my wingman

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DJ Axton

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Is this a common problem? Cause it's the first time this has happened to me and it's pretty annoying.

Me and my wingman were talking to this chick and I made it perfectly clear to him she was my target but she just fell for him. I don't know when, I don't know how. It all happened so fast - I'd never seen anything like it lol.

Anyway she pulled me aside yesterday and told me she was interested in him and not in me (not in those exact words, but that's what she basically said). I'll probably just next her now, my logic being that if I keep her as a friend she can open more social doors. Unless anyone has different advice?

I'm definitely not using him as my wingman again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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just so suave

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Your buddy got lucky, so you're never gonna go out sarging with him again? Thats silly, the chick probably just wasn't feeling ur game. Give him another chance.
 
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duffman360

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if u can't get with her u can make her a buddy and u'll get more options
 
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Joe The Homophobe

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If that happened to me I would be happy for my wingman then keep on sarging. Don't make it sound like she is the only girl in the world young grasshopper! hell if if were gaming a girl and she fell for my wingman and just jumped on his arms and started making out right there I would just walk away laughing (or might end up cheering for him) ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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