"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she dont wanna date me but dont want me to date others

cablecow15

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ok the girl im focused on right now me and her were talking last night and i asked her straight out why wont u date me she said i dont know i mean i know she likes me we flirt alot she touches me between my legs and every thing but she said she dosent know whats wrong with her she said when im dating another girl she cant stand it but when im single she dosent like me anymore im kinda confused to . i belive her cause weve know eachother for a while and i trust her but does anyone have some ideas as to why shes attracted to me when im not single and not when im not . i just want some more oponions before i start acting

thank u
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhhh....date other girls and then fvck her.
 

cablecow15

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lol yea and yea shes not gonna keep me from seeing other girls but i wanna try to have a realtionship with her idk im confused the thing is she knows i like her i have for a long time and shes always known should i stop acting like her back up and start acting like shes not important to me
 
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