"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she dont wanna date me but dont want me to date others

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ok the girl im focused on right now me and her were talking last night and i asked her straight out why wont u date me she said i dont know i mean i know she likes me we flirt alot she touches me between my legs and every thing but she said she dosent know whats wrong with her she said when im dating another girl she cant stand it but when im single she dosent like me anymore im kinda confused to . i belive her cause weve know eachother for a while and i trust her but does anyone have some ideas as to why shes attracted to me when im not single and not when im not . i just want some more oponions before i start acting

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uhhh....date other girls and then fvck her.
 
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lol yea and yea shes not gonna keep me from seeing other girls but i wanna try to have a realtionship with her idk im confused the thing is she knows i like her i have for a long time and shes always known should i stop acting like her back up and start acting like shes not important to me
 
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