"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she dont wanna date me but dont want me to date others

cablecow15

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ok the girl im focused on right now me and her were talking last night and i asked her straight out why wont u date me she said i dont know i mean i know she likes me we flirt alot she touches me between my legs and every thing but she said she dosent know whats wrong with her she said when im dating another girl she cant stand it but when im single she dosent like me anymore im kinda confused to . i belive her cause weve know eachother for a while and i trust her but does anyone have some ideas as to why shes attracted to me when im not single and not when im not . i just want some more oponions before i start acting

thank u
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhhh....date other girls and then fvck her.
 

cablecow15

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lol yea and yea shes not gonna keep me from seeing other girls but i wanna try to have a realtionship with her idk im confused the thing is she knows i like her i have for a long time and shes always known should i stop acting like her back up and start acting like shes not important to me
 
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