"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She doin other dudes?? HELP!!

whatdude

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Ok.. I'm new to the whole sex thing aight.. me and my girl pretty much just started last month.. well anyway, she went to a pretty big party this weekend, but I didn't go with because I simply had other things to do. I know.. sounds like a big mistake.

Anyway...

She stayed there for two days, she stayed with friends. She told me that she did get drunk and sh1t... but I don't know if she fvcked around on me.

I know it sounds like im jumping to conclusions but.. last night when she came back, we went out, and after that I started going down on her... I noticed that she developed a slight fishy odor down their that never existed before .. AND her hole wasn't AS tight as it normally is.

I didn't bring any of this up because I'm simply uneducated on sh1t like this.. so if anyone has any help or advice they can give me.. please do so.

And please.. don't make any stupid jokes about this, because I'm serious about it.. therefore, I only want serious responses... thanks.

Later
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheCzar

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Doesn't sound like.. You are jumping to conclusions.

You said the sex thing is new to you, yet you think smell and 'feeling' is off. These could be for a lot of reasons. Don't obsess, it's a bad thing -- and all that can really happen from you being freaked out about something you don't know either way, is --

If you keep it up, she will be fvcking other guys.

TC
 

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LOL, your funny. Anyway, to answer your question. I suggest that your break up with this chick. Why? Because your too young, too immature, and and lack the trust to make a relationship work.

I suggest that you just bang chicks and don't get into a relatiopnship again until your over the age of 25 and you've achieved your career goals.
 

NthDegree

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1st things first i'd say experiment a little, see what you like in a woman through practical experience is what I say.

Although people might find that idea a bit disrespectful or possibly "using" a woman, it's not because they do the same to figure out what they like and dislike.

Get some ultra secure condoms and find some women who you like and find out, don't get into a full blown long-term relationship before you have tried everything out 1st.

Oh yeah and when it comes to a "fishy odour" that could be bad hygiene.
 
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Have you considered that maybe your penis shrunk and that she may have had fish for dinnner? :D

Seriously - of course she got screwed - this is what "party" hors do!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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