"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She doin other dudes?? HELP!!

whatdude

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Ok.. I'm new to the whole sex thing aight.. me and my girl pretty much just started last month.. well anyway, she went to a pretty big party this weekend, but I didn't go with because I simply had other things to do. I know.. sounds like a big mistake.

Anyway...

She stayed there for two days, she stayed with friends. She told me that she did get drunk and sh1t... but I don't know if she fvcked around on me.

I know it sounds like im jumping to conclusions but.. last night when she came back, we went out, and after that I started going down on her... I noticed that she developed a slight fishy odor down their that never existed before .. AND her hole wasn't AS tight as it normally is.

I didn't bring any of this up because I'm simply uneducated on sh1t like this.. so if anyone has any help or advice they can give me.. please do so.

And please.. don't make any stupid jokes about this, because I'm serious about it.. therefore, I only want serious responses... thanks.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheCzar

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Doesn't sound like.. You are jumping to conclusions.

You said the sex thing is new to you, yet you think smell and 'feeling' is off. These could be for a lot of reasons. Don't obsess, it's a bad thing -- and all that can really happen from you being freaked out about something you don't know either way, is --

If you keep it up, she will be fvcking other guys.

TC
 

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LOL, your funny. Anyway, to answer your question. I suggest that your break up with this chick. Why? Because your too young, too immature, and and lack the trust to make a relationship work.

I suggest that you just bang chicks and don't get into a relatiopnship again until your over the age of 25 and you've achieved your career goals.
 

NthDegree

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1st things first i'd say experiment a little, see what you like in a woman through practical experience is what I say.

Although people might find that idea a bit disrespectful or possibly "using" a woman, it's not because they do the same to figure out what they like and dislike.

Get some ultra secure condoms and find some women who you like and find out, don't get into a full blown long-term relationship before you have tried everything out 1st.

Oh yeah and when it comes to a "fishy odour" that could be bad hygiene.
 
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Have you considered that maybe your penis shrunk and that she may have had fish for dinnner? :D

Seriously - of course she got screwed - this is what "party" hors do!!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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