"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She doesn't wanna give out her number...

Dole

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Ok this girl is not the only girl that I am trying to get with so moving on to next one is already happening.

Anyways I keep running into this girl at the club and first night I met her she didn't wanna give me her number she said if you really wanna talk to me you will track down my facebook. So I did, I talked to her on there a bit I asked her to come have lunch with me she said she only does lunches saturday because of work. I asked her thursday or friday cant really remember if we are still on she said she has to go out friday night and depends how late she sleeps in. I reply back asking for her number so I call her saturday morning she replys back at like 5 am saying naw maybe some other time. So few days later I msg her trying to start a conversation saying share your weekend experience she replys back saying what do u mean and asks me what i am doing for halloween. I write back saying some random **** and that had to do with the topic. she dont reply I write back at end of the weekend saying how her hallooween was? She doesn't reply. I run into her at the club the next week she says hi to me, as she's passing by i am trying to start a conversation she says she is going out with her friend for a smoke. I said ok ill come too cause my friend was bothering me to have a smoke all night. We follow them they went looking for another firend of theirs I got tired of following and just left and went back to the spot I was at. Anyways I don't run into her the whole night until the end of the night during closing time. I walk up to her and say u can talk to me in person but u cant reply to me on facebook, she start's laughing and is about to say something I just turned around and walked away. Two weeks later I run into her again at the club we talk for a bit and she buys me a drink, I asked her what the problem is she said I was being random by asking her to share her weekend experience with me??? wtf... anyways at end of the night I try again to get her number as she is leaving she didn't wanna give it to me lol...

So now I am trying to figure out what to say on facebook to get her talking to me again...

I was thinking something like:
I run into u three time's now and you still don't wanna give me your number?
Playing hard to get... NICE!! i like that



This girl want's me but she is just playing hard to get... I have not really attempted my best performance to pull off DJ move's on her except make her laugh when we have a conversation but just me naturally, yet i am asking for her number ( am i making a mistake here ?? ), and she's always around this other girl that keep's ruining everything every time i see her at the club she doesn't allow her to talk to me for very long.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prodigy746

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Dood seriously....what are you thinking. Thant girl is not worth your time next her now!!! She either really doesnt want you or loves playing games. In either case she isnt worth your time so move on plz dont do this to yourself.
 

Rata Blanca

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She doesn't want to give you her number = not interested
 
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