"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She doesn't wanna give out her number...

Dole

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Ok this girl is not the only girl that I am trying to get with so moving on to next one is already happening.

Anyways I keep running into this girl at the club and first night I met her she didn't wanna give me her number she said if you really wanna talk to me you will track down my facebook. So I did, I talked to her on there a bit I asked her to come have lunch with me she said she only does lunches saturday because of work. I asked her thursday or friday cant really remember if we are still on she said she has to go out friday night and depends how late she sleeps in. I reply back asking for her number so I call her saturday morning she replys back at like 5 am saying naw maybe some other time. So few days later I msg her trying to start a conversation saying share your weekend experience she replys back saying what do u mean and asks me what i am doing for halloween. I write back saying some random **** and that had to do with the topic. she dont reply I write back at end of the weekend saying how her hallooween was? She doesn't reply. I run into her at the club the next week she says hi to me, as she's passing by i am trying to start a conversation she says she is going out with her friend for a smoke. I said ok ill come too cause my friend was bothering me to have a smoke all night. We follow them they went looking for another firend of theirs I got tired of following and just left and went back to the spot I was at. Anyways I don't run into her the whole night until the end of the night during closing time. I walk up to her and say u can talk to me in person but u cant reply to me on facebook, she start's laughing and is about to say something I just turned around and walked away. Two weeks later I run into her again at the club we talk for a bit and she buys me a drink, I asked her what the problem is she said I was being random by asking her to share her weekend experience with me??? wtf... anyways at end of the night I try again to get her number as she is leaving she didn't wanna give it to me lol...

So now I am trying to figure out what to say on facebook to get her talking to me again...

I was thinking something like:
I run into u three time's now and you still don't wanna give me your number?
Playing hard to get... NICE!! i like that



This girl want's me but she is just playing hard to get... I have not really attempted my best performance to pull off DJ move's on her except make her laugh when we have a conversation but just me naturally, yet i am asking for her number ( am i making a mistake here ?? ), and she's always around this other girl that keep's ruining everything every time i see her at the club she doesn't allow her to talk to me for very long.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Prodigy746

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Dood seriously....what are you thinking. Thant girl is not worth your time next her now!!! She either really doesnt want you or loves playing games. In either case she isnt worth your time so move on plz dont do this to yourself.
 

Rata Blanca

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She doesn't want to give you her number = not interested
 
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