"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she doesnt return the favor

john paul

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So me and this girl i have been dating for a couple weeks were in my bed making out tonight but after i finish fingering her she gives me this like half assed hand job. I pulled my pants off expecting her to give me a bj but instead she just kinda rubbed my **** for a while which didnt even get me going.
What am i suppose to think of this?

I know she likes me and i know it was her first time seeing a **** but still i dont know what was stopping her. It pissed me off.

Is this something i should ask her about or just wait till next time and thrust my **** down her thoat?
any advice or insights would be helpful
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha accually now that i think about it you bring up a good point.
I whipped it out and handed it over expecting her to know what to do, kinda like throwing a child in a pool to teach him to swim, most arnt going to figure it out that way.

that helps but anything else anyone has to add would be great
 

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john paul said:
haha accually now that i think about it you bring up a good point.
I whipped it out and handed it over expecting her to know what to do, kinda like throwing a child in a pool to teach him to swim, most arnt going to figure it out that way.

that helps but anything else anyone has to add would be great
ahahaha you could always do this... next time..:yes: let her do her own thing again and let her progress on her own.. that COULD be fun if she is that type of girl ha
 

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that would take hours, she wasnt even close. as far as she knows my **** only gets to be 4 inches
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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