"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she doesnt return the favor

john paul

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So me and this girl i have been dating for a couple weeks were in my bed making out tonight but after i finish fingering her she gives me this like half assed hand job. I pulled my pants off expecting her to give me a bj but instead she just kinda rubbed my **** for a while which didnt even get me going.
What am i suppose to think of this?

I know she likes me and i know it was her first time seeing a **** but still i dont know what was stopping her. It pissed me off.

Is this something i should ask her about or just wait till next time and thrust my **** down her thoat?
any advice or insights would be helpful
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha accually now that i think about it you bring up a good point.
I whipped it out and handed it over expecting her to know what to do, kinda like throwing a child in a pool to teach him to swim, most arnt going to figure it out that way.

that helps but anything else anyone has to add would be great
 

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john paul said:
haha accually now that i think about it you bring up a good point.
I whipped it out and handed it over expecting her to know what to do, kinda like throwing a child in a pool to teach him to swim, most arnt going to figure it out that way.

that helps but anything else anyone has to add would be great
ahahaha you could always do this... next time..:yes: let her do her own thing again and let her progress on her own.. that COULD be fun if she is that type of girl ha
 

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that would take hours, she wasnt even close. as far as she knows my **** only gets to be 4 inches
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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