"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She doesn't put out :(

TheNewGuy

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Heres my scenario:

I hook up with this girl in the back of my car. Her best friend is in the front of the car.

A month later, I hook up with the same girl again. Her (same) best friend is with us. I make out with HB best friend. I make out with HB same girl. I make out with HB best friend. Fun times had by all.

A day later, me and HB best friend go on a long L ride. I make out with HB best friend.

Two weeks and some odd days later (yesterday) I go on another L ride with HB best friend. We make out, I get her shirt partially off. We were in my car for a good hour and it didn't go past that point.

She says she doesn't want to do anything else if shes not dating the guy. I don't really think I want to date her right now. I get her from doing nothing to at least putting her hand on top of my pants, so there was some, albeit not a lot, progression.

I tried handling this the DJ way the first time (acting like it didn't bother me). When stuff didn't heat up the next two times I tried getting her to do something. Thats when she more or less placed her hand on my leg :mad:

Any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I say go DJ all the way. Sooner or later she'll crack.
 

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damn nice job. I didn't know it was that easy to get with the best friend, even when the girl is present...I guess I'm not hanging out with enough sluts...:rock:

Anyway, don't worry about it. You should get her sooner or later. When sluts want the cakc, they're eventually going to go ahead and grab it.
 

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You know, when I first read this, I misread it as "I hooked up this girl to the front of my car." My subconscious is such an arse sometimes. Ideas on this... dude, you're making out with a girl and her best friend. That's freaking awesome. I still haven't even learned to break biatch shield so this is a task above me. You may have not yet won the war, but you sure as hell deserve a medal or two for your victories.
 

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SamRi72 said:
You know, when I first read this, I misread it as "I hooked up this girl to the front of my car." My subconscious is such an arse sometimes. Ideas on this... dude, you're making out with a girl and her best friend. That's freaking awesome. I still haven't even learned to break biatch shield so this is a task above me. You may have not yet won the war, but you sure as hell deserve a medal or two for your victories.
You know... I used to read threads titled "She won't go past second" and say "You ungrateful ass, I wish I could be there, I'd be more grateful than YOU."

I have a weird thing about constant improvement though :box:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's nothing wrong with wanting to progress, or not being satisfied with the current amount of physicality in the relationship...

I'm still amazed that as a high school guy you can go back and forth between chicks in the same car...and still not get laid. ;p
 

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alright... okay... here goes it.

alright

first, equip your Helm of Charisma.


second, cast Charm on the main girl and her BFF.


third, this is the tricky part, pull your character menu up and wield your Hammer of Destruction and with a mighty blow... BASH THEIR HEADS IN!!!
 

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The Shocker said:
There's nothing wrong with wanting to progress, or not being satisfied with the current amount of physicality in the relationship...

I'm still amazed that as a high school guy you can go back and forth between chicks in the same car...and still not get laid. ;p
Yeah tell me about it.


Michele... what?
 

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Michele said:
alright... okay... here goes it.

alright

first, equip your Helm of Charisma.


second, cast Charm on the main girl and her BFF.


third, this is the tricky part, pull your character menu up and wield your Hammer of Destruction and with a mighty blow... BASH THEIR HEADS IN!!!
You are my god.
 

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****.d

Another night, she got a little heavier with the hands but still. God damn.

Oh well, I'm zooted.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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