"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She doesn't put out :(

TheNewGuy

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Heres my scenario:

I hook up with this girl in the back of my car. Her best friend is in the front of the car.

A month later, I hook up with the same girl again. Her (same) best friend is with us. I make out with HB best friend. I make out with HB same girl. I make out with HB best friend. Fun times had by all.

A day later, me and HB best friend go on a long L ride. I make out with HB best friend.

Two weeks and some odd days later (yesterday) I go on another L ride with HB best friend. We make out, I get her shirt partially off. We were in my car for a good hour and it didn't go past that point.

She says she doesn't want to do anything else if shes not dating the guy. I don't really think I want to date her right now. I get her from doing nothing to at least putting her hand on top of my pants, so there was some, albeit not a lot, progression.

I tried handling this the DJ way the first time (acting like it didn't bother me). When stuff didn't heat up the next two times I tried getting her to do something. Thats when she more or less placed her hand on my leg :mad:

Any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I say go DJ all the way. Sooner or later she'll crack.
 

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damn nice job. I didn't know it was that easy to get with the best friend, even when the girl is present...I guess I'm not hanging out with enough sluts...:rock:

Anyway, don't worry about it. You should get her sooner or later. When sluts want the cakc, they're eventually going to go ahead and grab it.
 

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You know, when I first read this, I misread it as "I hooked up this girl to the front of my car." My subconscious is such an arse sometimes. Ideas on this... dude, you're making out with a girl and her best friend. That's freaking awesome. I still haven't even learned to break biatch shield so this is a task above me. You may have not yet won the war, but you sure as hell deserve a medal or two for your victories.
 

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SamRi72 said:
You know, when I first read this, I misread it as "I hooked up this girl to the front of my car." My subconscious is such an arse sometimes. Ideas on this... dude, you're making out with a girl and her best friend. That's freaking awesome. I still haven't even learned to break biatch shield so this is a task above me. You may have not yet won the war, but you sure as hell deserve a medal or two for your victories.
You know... I used to read threads titled "She won't go past second" and say "You ungrateful ass, I wish I could be there, I'd be more grateful than YOU."

I have a weird thing about constant improvement though :box:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There's nothing wrong with wanting to progress, or not being satisfied with the current amount of physicality in the relationship...

I'm still amazed that as a high school guy you can go back and forth between chicks in the same car...and still not get laid. ;p
 

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alright... okay... here goes it.

alright

first, equip your Helm of Charisma.


second, cast Charm on the main girl and her BFF.


third, this is the tricky part, pull your character menu up and wield your Hammer of Destruction and with a mighty blow... BASH THEIR HEADS IN!!!
 

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The Shocker said:
There's nothing wrong with wanting to progress, or not being satisfied with the current amount of physicality in the relationship...

I'm still amazed that as a high school guy you can go back and forth between chicks in the same car...and still not get laid. ;p
Yeah tell me about it.


Michele... what?
 

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Michele said:
alright... okay... here goes it.

alright

first, equip your Helm of Charisma.


second, cast Charm on the main girl and her BFF.


third, this is the tricky part, pull your character menu up and wield your Hammer of Destruction and with a mighty blow... BASH THEIR HEADS IN!!!
You are my god.
 

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****.d

Another night, she got a little heavier with the hands but still. God damn.

Oh well, I'm zooted.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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