"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She doesn't know if she have a bf or not.

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Usually I would get a yes or no answer when I asked, "Do you have a bf?" But this girl said she doesn't know. I asked her why, she said she doesn't know where he is anymore, and she does not care. I changed the subject after that.

I don't really know if I should move forward or back off. I am assuming she does have a bf, but the relationship is not going well?

There is nothing wrong if I take her out and get her to dump that guy right? She is a very cute 22 years old girl.

Thanks for reading,

CC
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah never ask that. If you have to, you can ask "Are you single?" but there's no point. If you really need to know, if she's mouthing off or being ****y just tell her friends in front of her "Whoever her boyfriend is, he's not spanking her enough" and someone will probably let you know if she doesn't have one.
 
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Danger said:
I never ask if they have a bf. That's as blatant a display of intent as anything and often it will creep a girl out, especially if done before she already has the idea that she wants you for her bf.
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Yeah, never ask if they have boyfriends. It really is of no consequence. If she's going to hook up with someone she's going to hook up with someone. Women are not logical and live in the moment, use that to your advantage. Furthermore you'll never feel guilty (some guys do) if the girl is in a relationship because you honestly never knew. But think about it this way, if she is, she's obviously a tramp and the guy was going to find out about it eventually anyway. Just don't you yourself get in a relationship with her afterward. I assure you you're not special enough that she'll decide to not cheat on you as well. Treat her like what she is, a tramp, and go about your day.

Btw, the girl you were talking to is an idiot. I know it, and she knows it. How do you not know where your bf is? Seriously? Gimme a break.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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