"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She doesn't know if she have a bf or not.

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Usually I would get a yes or no answer when I asked, "Do you have a bf?" But this girl said she doesn't know. I asked her why, she said she doesn't know where he is anymore, and she does not care. I changed the subject after that.

I don't really know if I should move forward or back off. I am assuming she does have a bf, but the relationship is not going well?

There is nothing wrong if I take her out and get her to dump that guy right? She is a very cute 22 years old girl.

Thanks for reading,

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah never ask that. If you have to, you can ask "Are you single?" but there's no point. If you really need to know, if she's mouthing off or being ****y just tell her friends in front of her "Whoever her boyfriend is, he's not spanking her enough" and someone will probably let you know if she doesn't have one.
 
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Danger said:
I never ask if they have a bf. That's as blatant a display of intent as anything and often it will creep a girl out, especially if done before she already has the idea that she wants you for her bf.
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Yeah, never ask if they have boyfriends. It really is of no consequence. If she's going to hook up with someone she's going to hook up with someone. Women are not logical and live in the moment, use that to your advantage. Furthermore you'll never feel guilty (some guys do) if the girl is in a relationship because you honestly never knew. But think about it this way, if she is, she's obviously a tramp and the guy was going to find out about it eventually anyway. Just don't you yourself get in a relationship with her afterward. I assure you you're not special enough that she'll decide to not cheat on you as well. Treat her like what she is, a tramp, and go about your day.

Btw, the girl you were talking to is an idiot. I know it, and she knows it. How do you not know where your bf is? Seriously? Gimme a break.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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