She doesn't know if she have a bf or not.

[chuchu]

Usually I would get a yes or no answer when I asked, "Do you have a bf?" But this girl said she doesn't know. I asked her why, she said she doesn't know where he is anymore, and she does not care. I changed the subject after that.

I don't really know if I should move forward or back off. I am assuming she does have a bf, but the relationship is not going well?

There is nothing wrong if I take her out and get her to dump that guy right? She is a very cute 22 years old girl.

Thanks for reading,

CC

 

[PeeGee]

You see a guy? No? Make a move.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Yeah never ask that. If you have to, you can ask "Are you single?" but there's no point. If you really need to know, if she's mouthing off or being ****y just tell her friends in front of her "Whoever her boyfriend is, he's not spanking her enough" and someone will probably let you know if she doesn't have one.

 

[chuchu]

Thanks guys, I will tag her along with me next week.

 

[The DomMega]

I never ask if they have a bf. That's as blatant a display of intent as anything and often it will creep a girl out, especially if done before she already has the idea that she wants you for her bf.

Yeah, never ask if they have boyfriends. It really is of no consequence. If she's going to hook up with someone she's going to hook up with someone. Women are not logical and live in the moment, use that to your advantage. Furthermore you'll never feel guilty (some guys do) if the girl is in a relationship because you honestly never knew. But think about it this way, if she is, she's obviously a tramp and the guy was going to find out about it eventually anyway. Just don't you yourself get in a relationship with her afterward. I assure you you're not special enough that she'll decide to not cheat on you as well. Treat her like what she is, a tramp, and go about your day.

Btw, the girl you were talking to is an idiot. I know it, and she knows it. How do you not know where your bf is? Seriously? Gimme a break.