She doesn't know how she feels

[hotsauce122690]

Ok, so i have been trying to get with this girl that i became friends with at the beginning of the year. We're pretty good friends now and have a few classes together. I have taken her out a few times and we went to winterball together.
So i took her out to lunch recently, and when i sent her home i told her that i liked her. (She was giving pretty good signs for a shy girl the past couple weeks: laughing at me and little bit of flirting. i also heard from her bff that she has a crush on me.) There was a little bit of silence and then she said she doesnt kno how she feels. And that i was a best friend to her. She said she doesnt want to be mean. And told me again that she doesnt kno.
I dont know how i should feel about this?

 

[GaryUranga]

I dunno man, maybe she has other crap going on and youre just not stiring up enough emotions in her

 

[hotsauce122690]

normally you would think that i should just next her. But this girl is just so special to me. She isnt even my type, but im mysteriously attracted to her. I feel so good being around her, i just feel that there is some special attraction. And she isnt hot or anything, but its just that I really like her for who she is.

 

[Unprez]

cut her off for a month or 2...reason is because u like her more than she likes u, walk away and then reappaer so she has time to think about it and she'll hopefully miss u too.....

 

[drmeathead]

anything but a yes is a no....freeze her out for a month or two like unprez says or next her but dont wait around for her to figure things out. **** that. if she doesnt think enough of you to know she wants to give things a shot and see how things fall into place she isnt worth your time