"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She doesn't know how she feels

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Ok, so i have been trying to get with this girl that i became friends with at the beginning of the year. We're pretty good friends now and have a few classes together. I have taken her out a few times and we went to winterball together.
So i took her out to lunch recently, and when i sent her home i told her that i liked her. (She was giving pretty good signs for a shy girl the past couple weeks: laughing at me and little bit of flirting. i also heard from her bff that she has a crush on me.) There was a little bit of silence and then she said she doesnt kno how she feels. And that i was a best friend to her. She said she doesnt want to be mean. And told me again that she doesnt kno.
I dont know how i should feel about this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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normally you would think that i should just next her. But this girl is just so special to me. She isnt even my type, but im mysteriously attracted to her. I feel so good being around her, i just feel that there is some special attraction. And she isnt hot or anything, but its just that I really like her for who she is.
 
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cut her off for a month or 2...reason is because u like her more than she likes u, walk away and then reappaer so she has time to think about it and she'll hopefully miss u too.....
 
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anything but a yes is a no....freeze her out for a month or two like unprez says or next her but dont wait around for her to figure things out. **** that. if she doesnt think enough of you to know she wants to give things a shot and see how things fall into place she isnt worth your time
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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