"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She doesn't know how she feels

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Ok, so i have been trying to get with this girl that i became friends with at the beginning of the year. We're pretty good friends now and have a few classes together. I have taken her out a few times and we went to winterball together.
So i took her out to lunch recently, and when i sent her home i told her that i liked her. (She was giving pretty good signs for a shy girl the past couple weeks: laughing at me and little bit of flirting. i also heard from her bff that she has a crush on me.) There was a little bit of silence and then she said she doesnt kno how she feels. And that i was a best friend to her. She said she doesnt want to be mean. And told me again that she doesnt kno.
I dont know how i should feel about this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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normally you would think that i should just next her. But this girl is just so special to me. She isnt even my type, but im mysteriously attracted to her. I feel so good being around her, i just feel that there is some special attraction. And she isnt hot or anything, but its just that I really like her for who she is.
 
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cut her off for a month or 2...reason is because u like her more than she likes u, walk away and then reappaer so she has time to think about it and she'll hopefully miss u too.....
 
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anything but a yes is a no....freeze her out for a month or two like unprez says or next her but dont wait around for her to figure things out. **** that. if she doesnt think enough of you to know she wants to give things a shot and see how things fall into place she isnt worth your time
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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