Ok me and this girl hit it off too make long story short she gave me her number and I decide too call her the next day,so I call the 1st time and nobody picks up and then I wait a hour later too call her back the 2nd time,ok I call her nobody picks up again and I didnt leave a message.Do you guys think I should call her a 3rd time or just move on because she might be playing games.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She doesnt answer the phone twice need adivice please
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Did you leave a message either time?
How should she know it is you? Even if she does, you need to always leave a message and just wait for her response.
Don't keep calling, but if you're gonna call, always leave a message.
You leave a message and wait for her response. You get one more phone call, and LEAVE A MESSAGE. If she doesn't call you back, move on.
How should she know it is you? Even if she does, you need to always leave a message and just wait for her response.
Don't keep calling, but if you're gonna call, always leave a message.
You leave a message and wait for her response. You get one more phone call, and LEAVE A MESSAGE. If she doesn't call you back, move on.
Skydiver43127
Senior Don Juan
I usually place call 2 a few days after call 1, and call 3 a week after call 2. But most girls never pick up anyway and I don't put much importance on this, it's the way things work. There's a probably a better way to do this but not caring seems to work fine - eventually some of them do pick up.
Frank_Tartaglia
Don Juan
Yeah, leaving a message is the right idea. If you don't leave a message most people won't reply at all. If you do leave a message and she doesn't call back then she's probably not interested. If she doesn't call you back you could call again a day or two later. That usually doesn't get results, but sometimes it does. I would say waiting a couple of days is worth a shot, but it chances are against it yielding results.
Vice
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This was a big problem for me, and I figured out a solution that works for me:
I try to go on an instant-date with them so that they invest more time/emotional energy into me, so I'm not that random dude that calls them after getting her number a few days ago. Girls give out their numbers like free candy.
I try to go on an instant-date with them so that they invest more time/emotional energy into me, so I'm not that random dude that calls them after getting her number a few days ago. Girls give out their numbers like free candy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
fearless_surrender
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yea waiting for more and more days spells disaster too. you can try blitzing her phone (calling it multiple times at once) ... but another negative thing is she might have a lot of resistance and use tactics to scare you off.
fearless_surrender
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oh great.. just be like "lets just be friends? you mean let's just be an extramarital affair?"
so i guess you just called her once? and let it be a missed call?
so i guess you just called her once? and let it be a missed call?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.