She doesn’t give a damn about you going No Contact

[mrgoodstuff]

100% guarentied fact the girls out getting loads blown all over her face while your thinking yor little contact game is working.

tho it can work to get her back and get sex you'll always be on the marry go round of the chitty emotions youre feeling that made you go no contact in the first place.

you were a cool guy she liked and you got attached to her, you lose frame, she leaves and your pissed about it. the guys still on top of there game swoop her up and laugh in your face.

it's the guys fault for getting upset and depressed in the first place..

what's the cure for no contact?

joke about sex all the time and laugh at each others crazy sex storys and be 100% open to others lives and respect each others sex drives.

instead of crying over them in jealous, obsessive fits of bluepI'll rage

So laugh about the guys that pounded her out while you were off your game?

 

[Chev.Chelios]

So laugh about the guys that pounded her out while you were off your game?

at the end of the day, well yeah.
accept the fact the you got fvcked over and you lost a huge amount of your time investing yourself into a flawed paradigm where you think any girl is going to be monogamous and loyal with your dumb azz.

girls are here on this earth to get pounded out, not locked into exclusive relationships.

when you find yourself getting fvcked over deeply it helps to laugh about it learn and move on. though most guys stay in anger and hatred and keep finding other girls in their same way of thinking which fvcks them over again.

self reinforcing beliefs of chodism.

whenever I lose, I get super fvcking pissed, but when I realize the fact I was ignorant stupid, and somebody was able to get me so upset the only way I can let it go properly is to say, "nice job.. azzhole, you really fvcking got me, gg.. I'm going to accept it and keep playing"

my game has gotten much better with this thought process. playing to win, get better not bitter.

Brian tracy in no excuses said a line that impacted me HUGE

whenever your feeling bad emotions, keep saying to yourself
"I am responsible"
the most important mantra for a competitive person.

Whenever you get fvxked over in a business deal, say I am responsible.

whenever somebody hustles you..
say I am responible.

whenever a stupid ignorant girl leads on your emotions and sticks a dry cactus in your azz banging all these guys as she still claims she's in love with you.
say I am responible.

tucker max in a podcast even mentioned the same principle.

he's goes as far as saying "if I get hit by a drunk driver, I'm still responsible," though its counter intuitive, not allowing yourself to be a victim no matter what happens is the keys to the fvcking Kingdom here.

the guy Victor frankl in mans search for meaning wouldn't allow himself to be a victim after he went though the fvcking haulcost!!

so being mad over a bpd chick compared to that is nothing at all.

if I get victimized by an insane drug addicted fake breasted ***** that leads me on a string for years sucking the life out of me, fuxked every guy i was friends with, robbed me for drugs, used sex as a weapon, I'm responible for getting involved with her in the first place and I HAVE to laugh about it, be a good sport and get my emotional state back in line to stay having fun in life.

or not laugh, be mad and become a sad little victim and start murdering people, which I've thought about during dark times aha

-chev

 

[guru1000]

If only I was Muslim

Haha, not Jewish or Muslim either.

That's why I don't bother responding to the little fella. Every assertion he makes is made up in attempt to provocate. The irony is the one time he did provoke me to respond with one post, he got banned LOL

These days everyone is abusing him here. I feel sorry for my little stalker.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Haha, not Jewish or Muslim either.

That's why I don't bother responding to the little fella. Every assertion he makes is made up in attempt to provocate. The irony is the one time he did provoke me to respond with one post, he got banned LOL

These days everyone is abusing him here. I feel sorry for my little stalker.

Who was it? "Sir"?

 

[resilient]

whenever a stupid ignorant girl leads on your emotions and sticks a dry cactus in your azz banging all these guys

Lmao! Good one man! I nearly lost my lunch at this comment.

Glad to hear that your game is improving.

You're internalizing the IDGAF attitude and it is working for you. Accepting responsibility and moving on fast to the next set is working. You don't get attached to the past and a failed relationship. Serious kudos man.

I want to work on this attitude to use that fuel to improve and move forward. Getting stuck in stasis, the realm of no growth is torture for a DJ.

 

[marmel75]

Haha, not Jewish or Muslim either.

That's why I don't bother responding to the little fella. Every assertion he makes is made up in attempt to provocate. The irony is the one time he did provoke me to respond with one post, he got banned LOL

These days everyone is abusing him here. I feel sorry for my little stalker.

Maybe "Sir" is what he is forced to call the "women" he dates hahaha

 

[Chev.Chelios]

@resilient game really gets fun when things start finaly catching on. learning the truth about woman is and will be huge pain period for alot of guys, the guys not learning game are fvxked for the rest of their lives. I'm walking around these cities and just see the destruction all around me. ask any normal guy about their dating experiences and they start to break down.

chit, I was selling my car yesterday and had a long talk with the guy that was interested in buying, turns out his baby mama became a drug addict after they broke up, took the kid and disappeared and he never saw them again. guy is walking wounded, needless to say he didn't buy the car lol but he did enjoy the tips I gave him, dealing with a bpd baby mama myself xD

to add more to the long post I just made, the person who will fvck you up more in this life is yourself.

nobody can fvckING brutalize you more then yourself.

you made the decisions to get involved with the people that hurt you, you made the decisions to live in this country, you made the choices that landed you were ever you are.

as in that guys case above he made the decision to knock a girl up and play daddy in this monogamous little fairytale we call modern society, the girl flipped out and left destroying his false reality I've known guys that have knocked up stunning women and never had the care to deal with them, no bullchit for them.

the greatest naturals I've met are guys who ruthlessly weild the "no victim" mentality to lengths that blow me away.

I met a guy out last year at the bar, we instantly became best friends, this dude was from az and was moving up to spokane wa to go to wsu for some type of medical school, he was on track for making 200k a year as a 21 year old kid. handsome looks not a shred of negetive energy in em..

he turned out to be a male pornstar that fvxked tons of well known actresses on sites like brazzers and other popular porn sites you jack off to hahah

he's fvcked tons of stunning girls outside of porn as well from tinder, social circles in his town, cold approach at bars and he never even knew wtf game was on the internet.

absolutly mind blowing guys like this exist, the one thing I took from him was his refusal to be a victim in anything, seeing him mad or upset would be fvcking weird.

so we kept in touch afterwards, he was coming here for the weekend for an interview and out of like 60 people they selected just him and someone else, he was going to move back here next year for school, a couple months later his snapchat stopped having stories posted to it, he stopped sending me snaps of the random chicks he was fvcking, and crazy orgy fvck party's he would have in his living room with a stripper pole.

a month later he posted a snap in to hehe hosptial, after a month long coma. the last snap I saw of him he was in Miami with his buddy partying at the clubs then went silent, turned out that night him and his best hockey pal got into a fatal car accident, his friend died and he had severe neck spinal cord trauma that put him into a coma.

so did this knock him out for good? depression? sadness? poor health and getting fat for the rest of his life addicted to mess like you see so many people do?

he simply recovered and a month later he was his old self again, he's really sad about his friend passing, but it's in a way were he accepted it and didn't let it destroy him. he's still the same guy, he can't drink ever again his doctor said or else he'll have seisures, but I'm telling him how awesome it is to game sober and in a few months you'll hate alcohol.

hes still banging more girls then ever, he stills sends me snaps of him busting his nut all over girls faces, then sending me their instagram profiles and the chicks turn out to be "quality" upstanding citizens with good family lives (most of them with boyfriends) lawl

and he cemented the power of not being a victim no matter what happens in life, fvcking beauty, never meet people like that.

don't be a victim!

-chev