"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She didn't take it well....

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Okay, so I'll make this short and simple...

Last night, I'm having sex with this girl I've been hooking up with for a while (we no longer use condoms, shes on the pill). I, mistakenly, finished inside of her and lets just say she wasn't happy with that...

I clearly apologized numerous numerous times but I can clearly see shes not too happy with me right now...What can I possibly do to make this up to her?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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DJx420 said:
Last night, I'm having sex with this girl I've been hooking up with for a while (we no longer use condoms, shes on the pill). I, mistakenly, finished inside of her and lets just say she wasn't happy with that...
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/sigh

She's on the pill but she's unhappy you finished inside.

I think you have bigger things to worry about now than what you can do to make her happy again.
 
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Next time, pull out on time and blow it all over her face. If she's still pissed off, pull a "I dunno face" and tell her "At least I didn't finish inside of ya!" and then fall asleep.
 
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SandHawk said:
Next time, pull out on time and blow it all over her face. If she's still pissed off, pull a "I dunno face" and tell her "At least I didn't finish inside of ya!" and then fall asleep.
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This.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First, why the hell are you not using condoms? The pill doesn't protect against HIV, herpes, venereal warts, chlamydia, syphilis, etc. It's not even 100% safe to prevent pregnancy.

Second, go back and read the first two sentences out loud ten times and then look at the images here: http://www.avert.org/std-pictures.htm

Wearing condoms EVERY time you have sex is a hell of a lot sexier than those pictures.
 
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^^you obviously never fu<ked a girl without a condom, it's a whole new experience...be careful just because she says shes on the pill don't mean she's on the pill, learn how to pull out on time.
 
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even if there on the pill, girls are lazy brats and they forget/dont bother to take that sh*t all the time.

I will say tho I have not been able to *** wearing a condom very easily since breaking up with my girlfriend.... not cool. condoms suck.
 
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GettinLuckyAintLuck said:
^^you obviously never fu<ked a girl without a condom, it's a whole new experience...be careful just because she says shes on the pill don't mean she's on the pill, learn how to pull out on time.
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^^ You've obviously never had an STI.

Also, pulling out is STUPID. There's a risk of disease AND of pregnancy. It DOESN'T protect against pregnancy.
 
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Chromeo said:
even if there on the pill, girls are lazy brats and they forget/dont bother to take that sh*t all the time.

I will say tho I have not been able to *** wearing a condom very easily since breaking up with my girlfriend.... not cool. condoms suck.
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And you won't get close enough to a chick to even get inside of her if you don't wrap the sausage and end up with spores the size and shape of cauliflower all over the tip of your Johnson.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Kailex said:
She's on the pill but she's unhappy you finished inside.

I think you have bigger things to worry about now than what you can do to make her happy again.
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I'm also curious as to why she didn't like it. Once I've moved to an exclusive LTR with a girl, we agree to 1) her being on the pill and 2) not using condoms. They usually WANT me to come inside. They love the feeling they say...

So that's why I'm curious as to why she didn't like it. Had she told you beforehand "Don't come inside" and you went and did it? That's disrespectful man. Is she on the pill because she's doing multiple guys and wants to minimize the risk of STDs/pregnancy? Things to think about...
 
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