"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She didn't take it well....

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Okay, so I'll make this short and simple...

Last night, I'm having sex with this girl I've been hooking up with for a while (we no longer use condoms, shes on the pill). I, mistakenly, finished inside of her and lets just say she wasn't happy with that...

I clearly apologized numerous numerous times but I can clearly see shes not too happy with me right now...What can I possibly do to make this up to her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJx420 said:
Last night, I'm having sex with this girl I've been hooking up with for a while (we no longer use condoms, shes on the pill). I, mistakenly, finished inside of her and lets just say she wasn't happy with that...

/sigh

She's on the pill but she's unhappy you finished inside.

I think you have bigger things to worry about now than what you can do to make her happy again.
 

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Next time, pull out on time and blow it all over her face. If she's still pissed off, pull a "I dunno face" and tell her "At least I didn't finish inside of ya!" and then fall asleep.
 

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SandHawk said:
Next time, pull out on time and blow it all over her face. If she's still pissed off, pull a "I dunno face" and tell her "At least I didn't finish inside of ya!" and then fall asleep.
This.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OMGWTFLMAO

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First, why the hell are you not using condoms? The pill doesn't protect against HIV, herpes, venereal warts, chlamydia, syphilis, etc. It's not even 100% safe to prevent pregnancy.

Second, go back and read the first two sentences out loud ten times and then look at the images here: http://www.avert.org/std-pictures.htm

Wearing condoms EVERY time you have sex is a hell of a lot sexier than those pictures.
 
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^^you obviously never fu<ked a girl without a condom, it's a whole new experience...be careful just because she says shes on the pill don't mean she's on the pill, learn how to pull out on time.
 

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even if there on the pill, girls are lazy brats and they forget/dont bother to take that sh*t all the time.

I will say tho I have not been able to *** wearing a condom very easily since breaking up with my girlfriend.... not cool. condoms suck.
 

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GettinLuckyAintLuck said:
^^you obviously never fu<ked a girl without a condom, it's a whole new experience...be careful just because she says shes on the pill don't mean she's on the pill, learn how to pull out on time.
^^ You've obviously never had an STI.

Also, pulling out is STUPID. There's a risk of disease AND of pregnancy. It DOESN'T protect against pregnancy.
 

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Chromeo said:
even if there on the pill, girls are lazy brats and they forget/dont bother to take that sh*t all the time.

I will say tho I have not been able to *** wearing a condom very easily since breaking up with my girlfriend.... not cool. condoms suck.
And you won't get close enough to a chick to even get inside of her if you don't wrap the sausage and end up with spores the size and shape of cauliflower all over the tip of your Johnson.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kailex said:
She's on the pill but she's unhappy you finished inside.

I think you have bigger things to worry about now than what you can do to make her happy again.
I'm also curious as to why she didn't like it. Once I've moved to an exclusive LTR with a girl, we agree to 1) her being on the pill and 2) not using condoms. They usually WANT me to come inside. They love the feeling they say...

So that's why I'm curious as to why she didn't like it. Had she told you beforehand "Don't come inside" and you went and did it? That's disrespectful man. Is she on the pill because she's doing multiple guys and wants to minimize the risk of STDs/pregnancy? Things to think about...
 
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