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She didn't take it well....

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Okay, so I'll make this short and simple...

Last night, I'm having sex with this girl I've been hooking up with for a while (we no longer use condoms, shes on the pill). I, mistakenly, finished inside of her and lets just say she wasn't happy with that...

I clearly apologized numerous numerous times but I can clearly see shes not too happy with me right now...What can I possibly do to make this up to her?
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJx420 said:
Last night, I'm having sex with this girl I've been hooking up with for a while (we no longer use condoms, shes on the pill). I, mistakenly, finished inside of her and lets just say she wasn't happy with that...

/sigh

She's on the pill but she's unhappy you finished inside.

I think you have bigger things to worry about now than what you can do to make her happy again.
 

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Next time, pull out on time and blow it all over her face. If she's still pissed off, pull a "I dunno face" and tell her "At least I didn't finish inside of ya!" and then fall asleep.
 

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SandHawk said:
Next time, pull out on time and blow it all over her face. If she's still pissed off, pull a "I dunno face" and tell her "At least I didn't finish inside of ya!" and then fall asleep.
This.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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First, why the hell are you not using condoms? The pill doesn't protect against HIV, herpes, venereal warts, chlamydia, syphilis, etc. It's not even 100% safe to prevent pregnancy.

Second, go back and read the first two sentences out loud ten times and then look at the images here: http://www.avert.org/std-pictures.htm

Wearing condoms EVERY time you have sex is a hell of a lot sexier than those pictures.
 
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^^you obviously never fu<ked a girl without a condom, it's a whole new experience...be careful just because she says shes on the pill don't mean she's on the pill, learn how to pull out on time.
 

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even if there on the pill, girls are lazy brats and they forget/dont bother to take that sh*t all the time.

I will say tho I have not been able to *** wearing a condom very easily since breaking up with my girlfriend.... not cool. condoms suck.
 

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GettinLuckyAintLuck said:
^^you obviously never fu<ked a girl without a condom, it's a whole new experience...be careful just because she says shes on the pill don't mean she's on the pill, learn how to pull out on time.
^^ You've obviously never had an STI.

Also, pulling out is STUPID. There's a risk of disease AND of pregnancy. It DOESN'T protect against pregnancy.
 

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Chromeo said:
even if there on the pill, girls are lazy brats and they forget/dont bother to take that sh*t all the time.

I will say tho I have not been able to *** wearing a condom very easily since breaking up with my girlfriend.... not cool. condoms suck.
And you won't get close enough to a chick to even get inside of her if you don't wrap the sausage and end up with spores the size and shape of cauliflower all over the tip of your Johnson.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kailex said:
She's on the pill but she's unhappy you finished inside.

I think you have bigger things to worry about now than what you can do to make her happy again.
I'm also curious as to why she didn't like it. Once I've moved to an exclusive LTR with a girl, we agree to 1) her being on the pill and 2) not using condoms. They usually WANT me to come inside. They love the feeling they say...

So that's why I'm curious as to why she didn't like it. Had she told you beforehand "Don't come inside" and you went and did it? That's disrespectful man. Is she on the pill because she's doing multiple guys and wants to minimize the risk of STDs/pregnancy? Things to think about...
 
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