"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she contacts u out of the blue with a BS ? = she's interested, when should u respond?

drift king

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there's this HB i had a back and forth with on facebook, i kept the convo as short as possible only asking a couple of questions then leaving a response that didn't have a question. she follows back asking me something so reply and ask something. she replies in a long msg which could have dignified a response but i took it a good time to end the convo. short and sweet.

a week later she's msging me asking me some BS question about some unrelated thing, i know i did my job right cos she's interested hence the msg but doesn't want to show too much so asks something unrelated.

should i make her sweat a bit before i reply? reply tomorrow?

she's clearly tryna see if im still talking to her but by me responding so soon after her msg just complies to her ? in her mind if im still interested in her.

if i answer her unrelated ? properly i could be LJBF'd.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CaptainJ

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Dude chill out and stop over-analysing. She's probably thinking that you're someone who's interesting to talk to. Not every little thing she does is going to be a trick or game that will instantly freindzone you if you answer slightly incorrectly. You have absolutely no excuse to over-analyse this much. Talk to her outside of MSN like a human and not a robot, before you start questioning her behaviour.
 
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