"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she contacts u out of the blue with a BS ? = she's interested, when should u respond?

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drift king

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there's this HB i had a back and forth with on facebook, i kept the convo as short as possible only asking a couple of questions then leaving a response that didn't have a question. she follows back asking me something so reply and ask something. she replies in a long msg which could have dignified a response but i took it a good time to end the convo. short and sweet.

a week later she's msging me asking me some BS question about some unrelated thing, i know i did my job right cos she's interested hence the msg but doesn't want to show too much so asks something unrelated.

should i make her sweat a bit before i reply? reply tomorrow?

she's clearly tryna see if im still talking to her but by me responding so soon after her msg just complies to her ? in her mind if im still interested in her.

if i answer her unrelated ? properly i could be LJBF'd.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CaptainJ

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Dude chill out and stop over-analysing. She's probably thinking that you're someone who's interesting to talk to. Not every little thing she does is going to be a trick or game that will instantly freindzone you if you answer slightly incorrectly. You have absolutely no excuse to over-analyse this much. Talk to her outside of MSN like a human and not a robot, before you start questioning her behaviour.
 
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