KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Great advice right there. If this was me I would dump that fvcking b*tch right on the spot. What happened to you was absolutly horrible, and is one of the worst things that could ever happen to a guy. I feel really sorry for you man, and I know times must be tough for you right now, but you really dont wanna put yourself through a now totally different relationship that lacks trust.shaunuk said:Mate, you need to look at the situation for what it is.
You turned you back from 20 minutes, and as soon as you turn back round, she's upstairs with two random guys probably fvcking and sucking them (did she?).
And then she says she doesn't know why she did it and she didn't realise what she was doing till you walked in.
Bullsh1t mate. Yes, she was crying, because she's genuinely sorry that it has upset you. Doesn't mean she respects you and is worthy of being your girlfriend.
Should you give her a second chance. No. FVCK NO. You're young mate, right now you wanna take the easy way out and just 'forgive her'. But that ISN'T the easy way out, you'll think about it everyday for months, maybe even every day until your relationship eventually ends (as most do). Yeah she was drunk, but she can't be trusted. Just think what's gonna happen next time she has a bit to drink and you're not around. You bet mate.
Don't think what I'm saying is harsh, I'm just being real with you bud. You're really young, you don't need to be cooped up with a cheat you can't trust as far as you can throw a horsebox. Peace mate.
Noo i meant stab the two guys...and i prolly wudnt stab them maybe i exaggerated a lil bit lol. But i would definitely kick the living sh*t outta them if this was me in the situation.shaunuk said:eaglez: yeah sound advice of course, and I know this thread should die now because the OP is making a mistake, but you can't stab two girls for your girlfriend cheating on you, lol..
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well its pretty much just basic human nature to fight for something you care about or fight for something thats yours. I mean idk if you've ever been in a relationship, but when you are in one, you get REALLY defensive of your girl. Like I said its human nature. Seeing your girlfriend with another guy or hitting on another guy makes you extremely jealous, and this jealously comes out through intense anger.The Gamer said:^So its the guys fault they wanted to get laid?
I never understood a how people get angry at the person that their mate is cheating WITH unless the person knew you were hooked up. It's like they can't wrap their mind around blaming their girlfriend so they freak on the guy when hes just doing what you would do too...
its just disrespectful, and when you really care about something its only natural to be defensive, its just instinctThe Gamer said:^So its the guys fault they wanted to get laid?
I never understood a how people get angry at the person that their mate is cheating WITH unless the person knew you were hooked up. It's like they can't wrap their mind around blaming their girlfriend so they freak on the guy when hes just doing what you would do too...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Desert Fox said:tell her "ok I forgive you. but i do not want to see you again and this is over."
dont let hate control ur life. but don't let stupidity control it either. drop this hor!
Yeah he's a total idiot hes gonna wind up as one of those guys who just doesnt learn and gets hurt constantly.cw92 said:i think he already took her back
Hahahaha or you could just take her back and start fvcking her best friend, and then make sure she sees it!fuzzx said:typical american idiot.
The only upside I can see for this is having a totally open relationship where he goes and nails all of her friends (behind her back), then takes pictures of her and him when she turns 18, convinces her to become a dancer and does porn then makes a ton of money off selling her ass while having 3somes with her and all the women he can find. At least make some money off this dude! If she's willing to stay then you need to capitalize on this great $opportunity$
If that doesn't sound appealing, she'll probably do it anyway with or without your permission. Please visit PENIS BOT and PORNSTARGALS.COM to see your girlfriend's future.
Christ american women are so fvcked up.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.